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writes: hi ive known this girl for a long time, and she just broke up with some guy after a long term relationship who i know too. we have done everythng together so she must have feelings for me but still likes her ex too... should i be patient and wait for her to get over her ex because i have grown to really like her? or should i let it go... or watplease help.
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reader, Zabadack +, writes (7 January 2006):
you know him too?
you're a selfish person never thinking of her feelings or the other guys. I'm happy to say I don't know you, and people like you would not be counted among my friends.. you'll find no validation for your actions here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006): My boyfriend recently broke up with me as well. And he won't even tell me why. This is what hurts the most. I've been crying everyday since then, an your posting only made me start crying again. I don't have any questions for you. I can only tell you that you are not alone.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (7 January 2006):
 You should probably talk to her to find out where she stands on having a relationship after this break up. Ofcourse she is still healing and will probably have feelings for her ex for a long time, the point of the talk would not be to pressure her into dating but rather to let her know you are interested in her when she is ready. Most girls appreciate a man that is willing to lay it all out there and let them come to him on her terms. If you really like her a lot then giving her a while to get over her ex should not be a problem, at some point however, if it is looking like she is just stringing you along then you will want to get out of there. What I mean by that is if after months she is still trying to get her ex back but seems to be keeping you on the back burner, then it will be time to start looking for someone new. Good luck.
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