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writes: I was in school when I met this man I fell in love with him from the first day then he used to be nice with me then he traveled I met him after 4years he asked me what makes me think of him for so long I told him I love him then he said why me then started to say that his bad for me and that am a good girl and that he has no money then told me to pray so that we can be in the same country and see each other and that what I want from him cannot happen now. So he traveled I got contact with him after 2 years we used to talk on the phone mail each other I told him I still have the same feelings like before he just told me that am crazy then I told him that am waiting for him he said stop saying things like that let us be friends when we meet we will talk personal stuff then told me he will come to my country soon.one day I rang him he told me that his going to his girls friends place I got really mad and told him why do this to me after all this time I have waited for you he said that he always told me not to wait for him and that he has found someone and they are happy together then he told me that it is not healthy for either me or him to be in touch and that he needs closure What can I do? ween me and you
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 sounds to me that he tried to let you down gently, so gently he did not have the guts to tell you straight.
He does not love you and never did.
You became obsessed with him, it is fair to say that he should have not kept in touch with you but you should have not waisted so much time waiting for this person.
Do not waist any more time wondering, wishing what can never happen.
You have so much love to give, for your own sake, try to move on. It is not going to be easy but the right person is out there for you. Be strong and happy. You deserve better.
Good luck xxx
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