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writes: Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year. And things lately have become a bit tedious. Because of her money restrictions and transport we find it hard too go out. We end up just staying in and not doing nothing, watching TV. I feel my girlfriend is getting too lazy and always wants too lie down and sleep. She is quite short in height and is a perfect sized however I feel she could lose a few extra pounds and I feel that her added lazyness in past weeks won't be good on her.We also find it hard too know what too talk about too each other. I'm finding it hard too talk too her lately, specially on the phone, because there is nothing too talk about because we don't do anything.Help shall be appreciated! thanks!
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (27 December 2006):
Hi hunny,
There are a lot of things that you can do that dont involve money. Why not go for a nice walk? That can be romantic and plus it usually sets a good atmosphere for a nice heart to heart. Also it gives you chance to excersise so your girlfriend can lose weight, without you making it obvious.
Also try spending a night a week apart from eachother as this will give you chance to miss eachother, and you will have far more to talk to eachother about good luck hunny
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): Hi there.. sounds to me from personal experience your relationship has run it course. However for you to express your problem shows to me you still really care about her. Have you tried talking to her about this? Its worth a try to save your relationship if you want to save it or are you now simply looking to get out of it?
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