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writes: A guy I had been seeing for a few months finished with me about 2 weeks ago and I really like him still even though I probably shouldn't. We had a really good connection and I also miss the physical contact. He sometimes had a problem in the bedroom with getting an erection and keeping it which I never questioned I was just patient so I am not sure if this has anything to do with what has happened? He did say he was nervous when we started sleeping together as I am quite confident in the bedroom. He told me he liked me a lot and then all of sudden just stopped contacting me as much after our last date. We then finally met up a month later (2 weeks ago) and he told it wasn't working out for him not really giving me a reason apart from things were 'good but not great'. He didn't even walk me back to my car after we met even though it was late and dark! He had also dramactically changed his appearance and was leaving to go away on his own for all of xmas!! I am just very confused as to someone who seemed so nice, treated me well at the time, was very into me could suddenly change so much. It was like he was a totally different person. We are both in our late 20's. Maybe he will come back? :( xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): It is hard to say what happened, maybe he has some personal issues he is dealing with and does not feel ready for a relationship with anyone, not just you....his bedroom problems are kind of strange in a guy so young, perhaps he has an alcohol or drug problem that you don't know about or is suffering from depression hence the dramatic change in his appearance.
I would not try to pursue him at all, just let him go, and if you want to find out what is up with him, I guess you could ask him as he is the only one who knows, but guys don't usually talk about this stuff easily, so I would just move on, you will find someone who is better suited for you, but try to wait until you are in an exclusive relationship before becoming sexually intimate if you want the relationship to last...base it more on friendship and mutual respect, passion will grow as your friendship deepens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): Sadly I think this relationship is well and truly over. He has told you in the nicest possible way that things were not working out for him. There are plenty more guys out there for you to meet. Just give up on this one,I know how difficult it is especially if you really liked him. But you will find someone to care for you the same way you care for them. Best of luck.
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