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writes: I am a father to a 15 year old boy, of which his mother and I have been apart for the past 12 years, but i have always made a point of maintaining a relationship with him. 2 years ago his mother offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever seeing my son again, of which at best she will allow me to spend 2.5 hrs with my son fortnightly" and to date, she is being true to her word, and keeps him away from me.His mother has "full control" of my son, on paper, and also has recently obtained full custody of him. My son still would like to maintain a relationship with me, but his mothers influence, does nothing but denounce's me from any involvement in his life. how do I maintain contact or a relationship with him, if she denies me any form of access, telephone calls, etc Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 Your ex is playing emotional blackmail game on you. the person who suffers the most here is your son.
You may have to Court/Mediation services to ensure you get to see your son. Look into this as each case is individual. It will not look favourbly in her part if she makes access difficult.
I feel for her, as this person must have some emotional issues to deal herself, that she has to resort to this, this situation is certainly not healthy for your son to be exposed to.
Sooner or later, your son will see and understand what she is doing, also he will be able to see you voluntarily which his mother will not have control over.
Hope things work out amicably for your son's sake and all concerned.
xxx
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