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writes: Hi cupids,I've never been one to wear my heart on my sleeve, and some people have even called me cold and secretive in my emotions. It's true I don't open up very well to other people and I find it difficult to convey my feelings in words to others. So basically it's like this, there's this guy I really like. We're not too close as friends, but we've known each other for a long time and often send each other txt msgs, emails, etc. I've tried complimenting him here and there to let him know I like him but I don't know if he knows. It's so hard to tell with guys!My question then is just a simple one. How do you let a guy know you like him without actually saying those words. I want to be subtle here because like I've said before I'm careful with my words and generally keep my emotions to myself. I just want to hint it at him so does anyone have any advice or have they tried anything along these lines and succeeded in getting their message across discreetly?Thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, lena +, writes (27 December 2006):
 personally i would just come straight out with it, if you did you may feel better. the confidence you give off may get his attention, do little things like ask for his number, call him to say good morning. compliment his clothes or aftershave. he will get the hint. give him a sexy lil wink etc...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): I believe the best way is honesty, if you tell someone your feelings its not always a bad thing, so what if he tells you he aint interested whats the worst that can happen...I have been through the same problems in the past with telling people my feelings and i learnt to share my feelings with people and it has seemed to help in some ways! If you cant tell him face to face maybe you could try getting a close friend to sort of see what he likes and dislikes and even see what he thinks of you and if he fancies you. If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be. There are alot more people out there for you, you just gotta find him/her.
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