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writes:I'm married almost a year to my wife , I am 44 and she is 21 . For the past 3 to 4 weeks I am noticing a dramatic change in her and I'm wondering is there something wrong or is she losing interest in me or what.? For the past few weeks she has been sleeping a hell of a lot , when she comes home from work she only is awake for 2 to 3 hours and then when I look at her again she is asleep on the couch . She also is not wanting sex either 3 weeks ago our sex life was on top now when i seduce her she shoves me away and says she isn't in the mood even to hug or kiss her she says to leave her alone , at first I thought she was ill because she get stomach pains and she pees over 5 times a night but this is happening everynight and she says she isn't ill just tired when i ask her to go to a doctor she almost eats me because she hates doctors so much as she has a huge fear of them , when we go for a walk she has to stop because she feels weird and almost like she is going to faint but tells me after when i mention the doctor it was nothing even though she gets really dizzy she frightens me sometimes because i think something is wrong but shes says not to worry . I love my wife very much and i'm worried does anyone know what might be wrong?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 September 2012):
 she sounds VERY pregnant to me... has she peed on a stick?
what birth control do you two use?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 I agree preggo or just hormonal imbalance,either way go see a doc. A simple blood test will diagnose her way better than we can. I for one only lacked 12 years of med school and medical training to become someone that can help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Shes pregnant! Get her an at home pregnancy test. I have 2 kids and the first 13 wks omg i was sooo tired. Id drag through my days. I didnt want sex not because i didnt have urges but i was so tired! I even fell asleep while my fiancee was on top. Lol. If its not pregnancy though then i would say to get a check up. Sometimes you test negative even when you are preg, due to low hcg levels, but the at home tests usually work at 3 and a half to 4 wks. Good luck!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (9 September 2012):
I agree with the other posters! Those symptoms you are describing what sound exactly like pregnancy. Sleeping a lot, frequent urination, dizzy spells...all point to a bun in the oven.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 September 2012):
 She could be pregnant or she could have another issue. I have thyroid issues and have to take medicine for it. Sleeping a lot, being generally lethargic, and peeing a lot can be symptoms of an overactive or underactive thyroid. Also, being dizzy or feeling weak also can too. It sounds to me like she absolutely needs to go see a doctor to figure out what is going on. If it is a serious health problem or if she is pregnant, she is going to want to get the prognosis so she can better take care of herself.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 September 2012):
 "Sounds" like you've knocked her up.... Why not get a pregnancy test (from the pharmacy) and have her take it?
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