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30-35,
*aksi567
writes:Hi, there everyone. I recently asked a question a couple of weeks saying that I was 22 years old and a virgin. to be honest I worry about attracting girls and how to be approachable. when I'm in college, there are so many nice girls who I would to talk to when I'm out in clubs, pubs and public places. Sometimes I try to start a conversation with girls but struggle with what to say. I'm looking for any advice to make me more attractive and approachable to woman. I don't sound desperate do I? Female advice would be good. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (12 September 2012):
 P.S. I believe that I forgot to tell you.... that you should keep your paper money in a roll, in your pocket.... with all the $1s and $5s on the inside... but be sure to have a $20 (or, a $50 would be better!) wrapping the outside.... THAT impresses the ladies!!!!!
Good luck...
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 September 2012):
 are you well groomed?
are you wearing fashionable clothing in the proper sizes?
do not wear baggy pants... ugh...
do not walk around with your clothes 2 sizes to big UGH
oh wait... I'm old... maybe the young girls like that...
be well groomed
be bathed
as to what to say....
work
weather
sports (around here even if you are not into sports you can talk about the local football and baseball teams)
local cusine... my fiance is new around here and he is making friends at work trashing our local cuisine as being nasty... but at least he has folks to talk to.
just be yourself honey... because the right girl will come along... if you are phony then it will be the wrong girl...
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male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 September 2012):
I think that I can advise you - from my many years of successful womanizing - that the best thing you can do to get women to notice and approach you, is to NEVER button the top two buttons of your shirt.....
IF that fails (to get their attention) it's also effective to be sure not to bathe, so that they'll notice your testerone-based aroma.....
Good luck....
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2012): The best thing to do is attend some sort of social event on campus, does your college have anything like a social drinks hour on Friday nights or something like that? then you can just approach a girl, say something like 'hey, do you mind if I sit with you?' and ask all the basic questions, what's your name, what are you studying? how long have you been here?' Sometimes the simplest approach is best to start off with.
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