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writes:Hi everyone I had going through a really tough situation my fwb and I decided to try make a go of having a proper relationship but a few weeks later I founf out he had been sleeping with another woman and he always accused me of seeing someone else when I wasn't I was faithfull so I text him and told him it was over we talked and said we would keep in touch as friends we were fwbs for 2 year bt the way a few days he text me and asked me if I could send him a pic of me for him to look at why would he do that why would he want a picture of me even though we are not together anymore? thanks
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 He wants the picture for his fantasies when he mast**bates...
Good luck....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 September 2012):
 Trophy pure and simple.. I "tagged" this....
Stop talking to him 100% delete/block his number and move on.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 September 2012):
 Hi
As the others have said, don't send him one, who knows where it'l end up!
He has played you for years, he KNOWS you will accept any behaviour off him, for now he has suggested staying friends. Soon he will ask to pop over to see you and before you know it you will be his FWB all over again.
You have put your life on hold for him for 2yrs or more.You could have met a decent man in that time and be settled n happy, do not be his 'friend' he doesnt treat YOU like one.
He's a cheat and a liar, for your own sake let him go before you waste more precious years of your life on this idiot.We are all a fool for somebody and the day we draw a line under it and say 'enough', is the best day of all
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 It could be as Cerberus said, that he wants a trophy. It really doesn't matter. Just don't give him one.
The man claimed he wanted a relationship so he could have you all to himself, while he philandered about with other women behind your back. He strung you along yet for some reason you wanted to keep him around as a friend. Why? Do you have the same low standards for your women friends?
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reader, spicolee2002 +, writes (9 September 2012):
You know the saying. Once a cheat always a cheat. It's so true and I hope you see it. I would not send a pic because it sounds like a game to me. Go out and find yourself a man that will treat you right and not make you feel insecure about it. Not all of us guys cheat. I've never done it but I had friends that did all the time and the girl they cheated on was nothing but a joke and they talked down about them to us his friends. Hope it helps.
Peace from Canada. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2012): He probably just wants it so he can show you off to his friends as one of the women he was boning. That's definitely the case if he wants you to send a sexy picture, if it's one of those then he may also want it to throw it online for other people to see and to ruin you.
Look your situation is quite simple, he's a dick that's not relationship material because while he technically didn't cheat if he was seeing someone while you were FWB's he did give you the impression that wasn't the case and got quite insistent that you better not be seeing anyone and accused you of doing so. So he makes a shit boyfriend, and that makes him a shit FWB too because he's a liar and control freak.
The question remains OP why you would even want to be friends with a guy who treated you like that. I wouldn't, that's not a nice way to treat someone, he completely fucked you over.
Don't send him a pic OP, I mean if you're friends on Facebook then why does he even need a damn pic, you surely have lots on facebook he can look at.
You really need to have a long think to yourself what it is that makes him worthy of being your friend. Forget how you feel about him and just weigh all the practical aspects here. What are the pros and cons. Because from the way I see things OP there are nothing but cons, in these two years he has stopped you being able to find another guy who may love you and be good to you all the while he was still seeing other girls looking for a girl he wanted to be with. You have to carefully consider whether your feelings for him are too strong to be his friend and whether being his friend is just going to keep you trapped liking him and unable to move on.
Again don't send him a pic, that's a weird thing to ask a friend you probably have plenty of pics together he doesn't need a new one.
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