I can't seem to hit a girl's g spot
Q. i have 6.2 inch penis 4.5 inch straight and and around 2 inch slight down curve.. i had sex with thirteen different girl but i never get any negative comment but i still fell insecure because i think i m not able to satisfy and make girls orgasm in ...
A. 30 January 2014: Me neither; but I keep trying!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat
Q. Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are inti...
A. 30 January 2014: You write: "... i just don't feel in the mood for sex much anymore." AND, "I don't really feel comfortable with that and i stick by my beliefs."
THAT is the prescription for the demise of a "relationship." So... the choice is YOUR's. I predict ... (read in full...)
Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?
Q. Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...
A. 29 January 2014: You should tell him that you aren't, like, happy that he makes and keeps contact with his old - and new - girl "friends" on Facebook.....
... and that if he, like, chooses to keep hanging on Facebook to, like, keep contacting them.... that YOU... (read in full...)
I really want to be with my FWB but then I get scared!
Q. I really miss my FWB. We were the worst pairing imaginable and man he could push my buttons but I was crazy about him. after nearly two years, he decided he was finally ready to give 'us' a chance at a relationship and I panicked and cut conta...
A. 27 January 2014: First: Sit down and talk to YOURSELF. Decide if you REALLY want to be in a "FWB" arrangement with this guy.... or do you want a REAL "relationship" with him...
Once you've answered THAT, for yourself, then sit down and talk to this guy... a... (read in full...)
Is this typical fwb behaviour?
Q. Me and this guy have been seeing each other casually for a few months: however it's been on and off from the beginning. From the start he said he doesn't do relationships, doesn't like the drama and likes 'simple'. Every time I go to his house I c...
A. 27 January 2014: It "sounds" to me as if YOU think, or want, "FWB" to be more that simply casual sex....
HE doesn't define "FWB" in that way....
Soooo, you seem to think that "FWB" is an in-depth "almost-relationship"..... whilest he seems to think that "FWB"... (read in full...)
3 guys but not sure if any of them are into me?
Q. I am extremely confused. There's 3 guys that I am interested in, but i don't know if any of them are interested in me. I'm friends with all 3 of them and they're all friends as well. Just for the record, I'm not that pretty and my body is average ...
A. 26 January 2014: Unless you're prepared to be a strumpet available to all of them, you should get away from all of them.....
Later, you can decide if one of them strikes your fancy... and get "back" in-touch with him...
This, being the "hot" babe that all th... (read in full...)
Is his contact with the girl from the AA meetings violating their open relationship rules?
Q. Ok- I am posting for my best friend because it is an issue she is struggling with and came to me for help/to talk. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her. She is engaged and living with her fiance. They are in an open relationship and have been to...
A. 24 January 2014: Sometimes, it's OK to just keep quiet..... even if you HAVE been asked for your opinion....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
My husband told me he doesn't find my body attractive! What now?
Q. *Sorry if it is lengthy** I am in desperate need of advice. To be blunt to start out with, my husband reluctantly told me that he doesn’t find my body to be attractive. I am 24 years old, about to turn 25 next month. My husband is 28 going to...
A. 23 January 2014: A marriage without sex - when one of the partners wants it - is doomed to failure.....
What you need to do is sit hubby down, some evening after dinner.... and pour each of you a glass of his/her favorite wine, and say this to him:
"Say, H... (read in full...)
Should I invite my husband's sister to our son's party?
Q. Hi, all! I need some advice. Our eldest son is turning 4, and his party is this weekend. My husband doesnt get along with his older sister, at all. Every time they are at an event together, they end up in a terrible argument. I will admit she isnt ...
A. 23 January 2014: Yes.... you should tell hubby that you are going to call (her) and invite his Sister..... AND,... you should tell him (and her, as well) that you expect both of them to act a bit more maturely than the birthday boy (age, 4)!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
How can I improve my body language?
Q. Not a r/ship question but hope you all can help. Appreciate it. How to not give off a negative "vibe"? I understand body language, it's so obvious at times, you know.. folding yr arms may mean being closed off, uncrossed arms being more open, ...
A. 23 January 2014: Smile a lot; ask a lot of questions.... and don't fold your arms across your chest.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
He's not working but wants me to quit my job??
Q. Hi guys! Well i need some advice with this... i have a 6 years relationship with this man and we have a 2 year old baby, i got pregnant while we were in college... he hasn't finished yet but i did, and now i'm working... he's studying and taking ...
A. 23 January 2014: Sounds to me like your "boyfriend's" testerone is acting up. HE is starting to realize that YOU are doing better than he is.... and it's tough for him to accept that....
I wouldn't dream of giving up a good and well-paying job for some guy who ... (read in full...)
He bailed on me.. so what's up with him?
Q. Okay, my boyfriend, ex I should say, broke it off with me "unofficially" by disappearing 2 weeks ago. He told me he loved me by text, had nothing to offer, blah blah blah and then disappeared. The last thing he ever said to me was "I love you...". ...
A. 23 January 2014: As long as you allow him to do so.... he has got free rent in your head!!!! How long will you be so generous?
Good luck...... (read in full...)
I want him but he is committed to somebody else.
Q. I have been in love with this man for 8 years. He has a 9 yr. old son and is committed to the mother They live in the philipines. He visits them every year for 1 month. He is not married to her but says But I have a son. I want him but he won't ...
A. 23 January 2014: After 8 years? Don't you think the "answer" to your question is self-evident?
Hint: He ain't gonna be "yours"... probably ever...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Is being in love meant to be difficult?
Q. Hi everyone I have had, in the past, many abusive relationships. I have suffered from anxiety and agoraphobia (still suffer but I am very positive and proactive) and I haven't had an easy life but the good thing is that I am strong despite a...
A. 23 January 2014: I think "... you're (I'm) paying (literally) for his and his ex wife's past mistakes..." and, along with all the rest of the details that you've given.... you've gotten yourself in to a rediculous situation which has no evidence of a positive ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps saying he'll propose any day now but never does
Q. My boyfriend said he wants to marry me about 3 months ago. I told him I felt the same way. Two months ago he said we should start looking at rings. So we did. We went engagement ring shopping several times, with the understanding that no purchases ...
A. 22 January 2014: To the OP: "Methinks thou dost protest too much...."
You are spending lots of time and energy trying to justify things...... and to rebuff the sensible details that You Wish has put before you.
You came to this site and asked a question... (read in full...)
A crush slept with me and used me as a rebound after breaking up with his girlfriend!
Q. So I did a stupid thing the other night and slept with an old co-worker of mine. We stopped working together June 2013 and had talked/hung out very little since then. Well last Sunday night he text me to go out to a bar we use to hang out at. I ...
A. 22 January 2014: Remember this important difference between guys and girls;
When a guy has just "broken up" with his G/F, his penis is desperately seeking another vagina where it can penetrate in and feel good.... THAT's all it takes for a guy to "get over" th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps saying he'll propose any day now but never does
Q. My boyfriend said he wants to marry me about 3 months ago. I told him I felt the same way. Two months ago he said we should start looking at rings. So we did. We went engagement ring shopping several times, with the understanding that no purchases ...
A. 22 January 2014: OP: When a guy knows that a girl will keep putting out for him, if he just continues to hold out that hope that he will "pop the question" (propose).. then he really has no reason to "pop that question" .... as long as the girl continues to put out ... (read in full...)
I caught the man in lies and he finally came clean. No contact for 3 days--should I reach out to him?
Q. Ok so I started talking to this guy, who I met online, 8 months ago. We live two states away from each other and started developing this amazing emotional connection. We did eventually meet and the connection was even stronger. About three months i...
A. 21 January 2014: Two people who seem incapable of telling the truth and being honest with one-another. You and this guy seem to be a perfect match....
Perhaps you can put your "ex-s" in touch with one-another.... they will hit it off.... and the four of you can ... (read in full...)
My heart is heavy with the thought that the relationship should be ending
Q. I am in a relationship with a 39 year old man (I am 42). There are a number of things that have not been right since we got together 18 months ago but I am struggling to make a decision as to whether or not to move on as I am not happy. The first is...
A. 20 January 2014: You write: "...I am struggling to make a decision as to whether or not to move on as I am not happy.".... then go on with a lengthy tome which delineates this peculiar "relationship" that you've taken up....
WHY is there any struggle? There's ... (read in full...)
What should I do to avoid making the biggest mistake of my life ???
Q. I have been married for 6 years and I have the best husband in the world but I recently met someone ! We are very close friends but somehow I am attracted to him ! I feel like he is the perfect match for him ! He is married too but I know he is ...
A. 19 January 2014: If you have a large, old Oak, Elm or other durable tree in your yard... I suggest you go out and start banging your head upon it.....
Continue (banging your head), until you come to your senses....
That should do it...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
He's so rigid that he won't accommodate things I want to do
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years and I am having a few issues with the way he acts towards the things I like. Basically, we are very different and have totally different tastes. Mine are quite varied, whereas he likes...
A. 19 January 2014: WHY would you even consider to remain in such a one-sided "relationship"???????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Tired of my boyfriend's crap!
Q. Not sure where else to post this but hoping for some advice. My boyfriend, who is 34, and I have been living together for 3 years and I have asked him to clean up after himself in the bathroom many times. Specifically, he sits on the toilet in su...
A. 19 January 2014: "future spouse"????? Are you crazy?????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Ever been stuck on someone who's bad for you?
Q. I'm stuck on my ex of almost 7 months. He only just convinced me to try the relationship again this week, and he was back yelling at me again within 24 hours. He hung up like always, will pretend not to talk for like 2 weeks but I don't really doubt ...
A. 18 January 2014: If I had a nickel for every time I got "stuck" on someone who was bad for me.... I'd BE A VERY WELL-TO-DO MAN!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Threats, fighting, verbal and mental abuse. Is he about to break up? What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid yesterday i had a huge fight with my bf of 4 years, lately he is ignoring me, verbally and mentally abusing me all the time. Its getting difficult even to have a decent conversation with him on anything. Yesterday we had a huge f...
A. 18 January 2014: You write: "...I am so scared to even call him, he might be calling to break up with me or to verbally abuse me more, not sure, but i don't want to hear what he has to say...."
Here's a suggestion: Why don't you CALL HIM (yes!!!!!)... and tell... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but tells me her relationship is falling apart! Should I make a move?
Q. Hi! A year ago I posted here with regards to the break-up from hell. Well, I can safely say 12 months later that's all in the past Moved on with my life and it's all going well. So there's this new girl. Problem is... she has a boyfriend. Yep, ...
A. 18 January 2014: You write: "Most people say that I shouldn't go for it because if she is like this now, what's to say she won't do it again? To me that's not really a given."
OK... you're choice. But.... don't say that we didn't "tell you so.."
Good luck...... (read in full...)
No more Mr. Nice Guy! Does anyone relate?
Q. I am really struggling with the loss of a long term relationship and I'm just not sure how to cope with the feelings that I have inside. I'm hoping maybe some aunts/uncles on here can relate? I am a very gentle, sensitive person. I try my hardest...
A. 17 January 2014: As regards: "I'm tired of everyone saying "oh just move on and get over it"....its not that easy to do when you're 50 years old and you know its just not that easy to go out and date again! And the sad part is..I dont want to date again..why would ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with the poop streaks he leaves on the bed!
Q. This is a gross question but I really need advice. Sorry to be graphic. Basically Ive been seeing this guy for 3 months and on 3 occasions when he has stayed over at mine he has left poop streaks in my bed. He did it lastnight and I felt sick. He is ...
A. 17 January 2014: It would be hard to imagine that a guy, in this day-and-age - is improperly "toilet trained." However....
... you cannot expect a "pass" if your 'loo doesn't have adequate supplies..... AND....
... you should bring this up to him. Besides it... (read in full...)
How do I stop these desires?
Q. After weeks of self help books reminding me I'm a strong independent woman and I'm beautiful and I don't need a man (which is all entirely true!!) I would normally take these 6 months in my early twenties to love being single with no attention ...
A. 17 January 2014: Two thoughts come to mind:
1. The success of your new business is THE MOST IMPORTANT matter, for the time being. Don't compromise that for a little nik-nik..... and,
2. You are going to encounter men within the business environment... a... (read in full...)
Has anybody else's relationship become stronger after a cheating episode?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half - we talk of marriage and babies and make future plans. I even had a pregnancy scare and he reassured me by saying that (while it wasn't the best time) we would be fine if we had a baby and ...
A. 16 January 2014: I think you've described a "relationship" which is fine for your "boyfriend"... and a substantial compromise for you..... He's still contacting "ex-".... still keeps trolling for who-knows-who-else.... and you are prepared to give him a "pass" for ... (read in full...)
Self esteem in women:is it biological, is it cultural, is it our upbringing, ,... is it a jinx ?!
Q. DC community, please help me out in figuring this : why is it that lack of self esteem , at least in relationships, is such a pervasive FEMALE problem ? I mean, just look at the posts on DC and a huuuge quantity of them basically says ...
A. 16 January 2014: Cindy: Lots of "question".... and who knows the answer(s)?
However, I will offer an opinion, based upon this question: "Why is it that women will endure so much poor- or mis-treatment in order to be in a "relationship" or to spawn children... (read in full...)
Do you say goodnight to each other or do you sometimes forget?
Q. My fiancé got upset that I didn't say goodnight to him. He wanted me to work on my project which I did late into the night. He was still up and in another area of the house when I decided I was really tired and I went to bed. He woke me up and s...
A. 15 January 2014: Whether we together - at one of our homes, and do so directly - or "together-apart" at our individual homes... we always TRY to say "Goodnight, I love you." That way, if either of us dies during the night... that will be the last words we said to ... (read in full...)
The ex doesn't like my boyfriend spending time with our daughter
Q. Hello aunts and uncles. I am 21, and I share a 2 year old daughter with my ex boyfriend. When we were together he constantly cheated on, but he always managed to convince me that whoever had told me was lying. It wasn't until I found text messages ...
A. 14 January 2014: Your ex- sounds like a World-class a$$hole....
I'd ignore him... and stick on the course you are taking to have a NORMAL life (i.e..... a life WITHOUT "ex-" in it)...
Your new guy sounds like a real find...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Why on earth do women agree to an FWB situation?
Q. After reading so many posts here and seeing what girls and women do around me, I have a question, why on Earth women agree to FWB situation?? I understand if casual sex just happens once, in a heat of a moment, once very rarely and it's not a no...
A. 14 January 2014: Amen....... (read in full...)
Ladies -- what terms do you use?
Q. Curious question for the women: how many of you call your vagina a "pussy"? What do you think of the word "cunt"? I like the word pussy...I think it's sexy but the other word seems harsh and derogatory to me. Yet, I've heard that word used by ...
A. 14 January 2014: I refer to "lady parts"..... then proceed to service them...
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I want a baby but my boyfriend isn't ready
Q. My partner and I are 25 and have been together for 6 years. We moved in together about 6 months ago. We have a good relationship and have always discussed marriage and kids which we both want. I told my boyfriend a few months ago that I wanted to ...
A. 12 January 2014: 6 years.... and, just now, you are learning that this guy doesn't want marriage and children?????? What have the two of you been discussing?
I'd suggest that you realize that this "man-child" likes the carefree life that he has.... with little o... (read in full...)
How to recover from an emotional second date (ending)
Q. So I went on two dates with a girl I really like this week. The first went well. The second went well...until the very end. How can I recover (avoid scaring her off)? The Second Date: We went out to see a jazz show at a local bar. The show was gre...
A. 11 January 2014: DON'T APOLOGIZE (any more)!!!! It "sounds" pathetic and shifts all the "power" to her.... AND, she may not want it!
Let this (second) date go.... and pick up where you would LIKE to "pick up". Suggest any of the types of dates that you and ... (read in full...)
We absolutely have the money for a wedding but I'm not sure its a good investment!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a wedding question. My fiance and I have waited almost three years to get engaged as I wanted to be able to afford the wedding I want as all little girls dream about their wedding. I am just not sure I can spend six thousand...
A. 11 January 2014: Congratulations for buying in to one of the biggest boondoggles of all time..... the expensive wedding!!!
Whether you spend $10 (for the license + $10 tip to the Justice of the Peace) or $10,000.... you're no more or less "married."
I'm not... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle my boyfriend's abusive behavior anymore!
Q. Dear Cupid Im with my current bf for almost 4 years, its the longest relationship for both of us. My bf was previously with lots of girls nothing lasted even for 6 months. Coming to my problem, he often becomes abusive, im not even sure whats ...
A. 11 January 2014: Note this phrase in your submittal: "....when i ask him to do any work around the house or when i ask about marriage. "
May I assume that you and he are NOT married? If "yes," then your "answer" is very simple. Walk away from this cad and neve... (read in full...)
My B/f has changed so much, I met him now, no way I would go out with him. Is it time to call it a day?
Q. My boyfriend has changed so much since we got together it's like he's a completely different person. We've been together for almost five years and moved in with each other about a year ago. A year into the relationship, he started gaining weight and ...
A. 11 January 2014: Yes... you and he have evolved such that you really aren't a compatible "couple", after all. Cut your losses....
Good luck...
P.S. "Moving in together" is a very dangerous step in a relationship.... as it allows the guy (usually) to let... (read in full...)
He said I pushed him into getting married
Q. After watching a movie with my husband about a very possessive women who was trying to force her bf into marriage and when he wouldn't she went absolutely nuts (funny movie by the way) My Husband looks over at me and says all women want is to get ...
A. 10 January 2014: We guys hate to admit that we're "sensitive" enough to want to be married.... since that means that we agree to no longer go drinking, carousing and whoring. ... AND WHAT red-blooded American man wants to admit to that?????
HOWEVER, when it ... (read in full...)
The show is over before it even begins! Any tips on handling this problem?
Q. We are both virgins, happy relationship, ready to have sex. Care about each other a lot, he's lovely. Everything else - oral, manual, foreplay - is great. But when we go to have sex, he cums immediately. Like, within a split second of going to ...
A. 10 January 2014: I'm surprised that none of the Aunts or Uncles has suggested that he masturbate a couple of hours before you and he are - or will - share intimacies. Seems that that orgasm can have the effect of slightly de-sensitizing the penis, and can allow ... (read in full...)
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