Whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal?
Q. Hi I've just recently met a guy I like a lot. The trouble is, whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal? I keep wretchin...
A. 23 August 2007: I learned a long time ago that it's always best to just be honest and say what you mean, and mean what you say. But it's difficult for some people to put themselves out there and say, "hey I really like you." because there's always that fear of ... (read in full...)
Will the weight i have gained make him leave me?
Q. I have put on weight recently and dont let my boyfriend see me completly naked and he is getting upset about it, will he get bored and move on?...
A. 20 August 2007: You've probably just filled out from being a skinny little girl, to being a woman. Don't sweat the extra pounds. Most men find curves to be much sexier than skin and bones anyhow. Just remember that. And if he still wants to see you naked, ... (read in full...)
His mates are horrible to me when they come round.
Q. My boyfriends friends come round our house every sunday, but when they do they are really horrible to me and make fun of me, my boyfriend just says there joking and not to worry, but it really upsets me, i was so upset last sunday that i made my ...
A. 20 August 2007: I'm guessing you never had brothers that tormented you from the moment you woke up, until you went to sleep. Just tease them right back. They are probably exerting normal male behavior for this age, trying to get a rise out of you. They want to ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty after orgasm?
Q. I am 23 years old and I have been with my girl friend for 7 years. Every time we have sex and I orgasm I feel guilty after words. Every time I make myself orgasm I feel guilty. What is wrong with me?...
A. 20 August 2007: You must've been brought up to think sex is dirty, or that masterbating is "wrong". There are certain religious groups that frown on natural, normal behaviors in consenting adults. Maybe if you check out some books on the subject and see what ... (read in full...)
Should i be worried about his friendship with his ex?
Q. I'm finding it hard to deal with my fiances relationship with his ex girlfriend. Their breakup was amicable and they are still friends, she lives in another country and doesn't come over here very often. I feel really insecure because she was the ...
A. 20 August 2007: Yes men do hang on to mementos that are connected to their exess. Most of them are more sentimental than they'd like for us to know about. Since his ex doesn't even live in the same country, I wouldn't worry too much about her anymore. But ask him ... (read in full...)
Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6
Q. Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...
A. 20 August 2007: I suspect you won't survive on 2 apples a day for very long because your body needs protein, a few carbohydrates along with other nutrients to avoid feeling zapped. You may get away with this for a few days, but then you're going to start feeling ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for him to say I have to stay home when he goes out by himself all the time??
Q. Who is in the wrong? My fiance is gone for a week and so I went out to a bar last night by myself. He always goes to bars by himself, but yet he got really mad at me. He said that he didn't want to be with a girl who does that. He told me to ...
A. 20 August 2007: If your in a committed relationship, and neither one of you is comfortable with the other one, going to a bar alone, then neither of you should go. The rules should go both ways. When a woman goes to a bar alone she is quickly labeled as "prey". ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my mom to let me cut my hair?
Q. hi i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair in a long bob i asked my mom she said no and she said i am not having you cry for the next month my sister said to my mom let her have it how she wants if she doesnt like it its her own fault. ...
A. 20 August 2007: Try cutting it in stages. Lop off a few inches to begin with, wait a couple of weeks, then take off a few more inches, wait a couple more weeks, until you get the bob you're looking for - that way you can both get used to the new look without going ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had similar lack of feelings towards their husband/ bf and what did you do?
Q. i've been with my bf for 6 yrs and i am feeling fed up with our relationship and im not sure what to do. to start with he was the man of my dreams we had fun together i felt i could trust him completely and we could talk to each other about an...
A. 15 August 2007: Get out and get out now. Your husband has serious problems. You're never going to change him - only he can do the changing part and it doesn't seem like he even realizes that his behavior is wrong. You owe it to yourself and your child to have a ... (read in full...)
My ex is stalking me
Q. Ok i am 13 and i recently went out with someone in the same yr as me but i dumped him after 2 days. after i kissed him i knew we were'nt right, but now he won't leave me alone. he rings me and says who are you talking to? He even got jealous when i ...
A. 15 August 2007: You need to stop answering your phone when he calls. Stop having conversations with him at school and try to avoid him at all costs. By all means, don't let yourself be in a situation that you are alone with him to "talk" about anything. If you ... (read in full...)
Whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal?
Q. Hi I've just recently met a guy I like a lot. The trouble is, whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal? I keep wretchin...
A. 15 August 2007: It's hard to say, but I think you're on the right track at this point to just let him come to you. You've made contact, he knows you're interested, he says he's going away for 3 weeks. If you don't hear from him when he gets back, he's probably ... (read in full...)
How do you know when those little things that annoy you about your partner are getting too much and too many?
Q. How do you know when those little things that annoy you about your partner are getting too much and too many? My boyfriend of 13 months has just bought a house. Since I met him he has lived with his parents while the house was being done up, a...
A. 15 August 2007: Can you imagine your life without him? If so it may be that the two of you simply aren't compatible, no matter how lovely he is. On the other hand, if the thought of living without him makes you deeply sad, then it's time to work on these little ... (read in full...)
Opinions on female orgasms please.
Q. Ok, Ive been reading and thinking a lot about female cum, and I am now slightly confused. Yes girls orgasim, but this does not always involve ejaculation. It seems to me, from what I have herd that there are two differnt types of female ...
A. 10 August 2007: I agree with anon. There is no real squirting involved. Usually when a woman has an orgasm she will become increasingly more wet. This would be the fluid you have been told about but it varies from woman to woman and has no bearing on the actual ... (read in full...)
Whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal?
Q. Hi I've just recently met a guy I like a lot. The trouble is, whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal? I keep wretchin...
A. 10 August 2007: It sounds like he may be interested but doesn't quite know how to go about getting to know you. Maybe he's shy or he's used to women making the first move (i.e. why he was sitting on the wall across the street from your house, expecting you to come ... (read in full...)
His ex gf is telling me bad things about my bf. Whom do I believe?
Q. I am in love with my partner but his ex came up to me the other day and said that he beat her, got her in in debt, pregnant, etc. He says it's all lies and that she wants him back. They have been split up for 2 years. What do I do? I also have a ...
A. 10 August 2007: I wouldn't believe a word of it until you see the proof for yourself. You've been with him long enough to know if he has that type of abusive personality or not. If you haven't seen him act like that, and he doesn't seem to be a "user" then I ... (read in full...)
We split up and we are friends now but...will I get over this guy?
Q. hello i need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he finished it with me on sunday. he said he still loves me as a person but wants to be single. im gutted...i feel so crap and cant stop thinking about him. Fair ...
A. 10 August 2007: It has been my experience that I will get over someone once I stop hanging out with them, bumping into them, talking to them regularly etc. It may sound extreme, but it really does help you begin to rebuild your life without them. Your b/f ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are a compulsive liar?
Q. For the past 3 years I have been lying every single day, about things from what I've eaten that day to telling a lad I'd had an abortion. My lies have got way out of hand, but I can't tell people I've lied. At the same time, I can't stop. I feel the ...
A. 10 August 2007: You need to seek professional counseling because they will be able to guide you through a self-analysis which will help you understand why you feel the need to do this, and how you can begin to break the cycle and start telling people the truth. ... (read in full...)
I have a feeling that he doesn't love me anymore...
Q. Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for the last 2 years now. For our 1st year together he was okay and active in our relationship but now he seems changed, he doesn't even say anymore that he loves me, where he used to say before. He ...
A. 10 August 2007: Only he can answer that question and since he's not opening up and he's not reassuring you that it's all in your head, I would suggest the two of you split up for awhile and figure out if you still want to be together. It could be that he wants out ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I be missing him more than I do?
Q. I used to miss my boyfriend very much all the time. I might be considered a clingy girlfriend. My boyfriend lives 2 hours drive away from me and we can only spend weekends together. I used to look forward to all the weekends we get to see each other ...
A. 10 August 2007: It could be that you are becoming more independent, more confident about yourself as a person, and thus less clingy and insecure. If you still feel like you love your b/f and do look forward to his visits, and the two of you still have fun ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel he's boring and that his gaming is making me feel I'm not that important to him anymore.
Q. I am starting to wonder if I am in love with my boyfriend or I am in love with all the sweet things he has done for me when we first started dating. We have been going out for 2 years and we are very serious about each other. For the 2 year ...
A. 10 August 2007: Because you may be more incompatible than you realize and you have just been swept up in the initial attention he gave you at the beginning. I fell for my first husband this way. He opened doors for me, he took me to my favorite place to eat, he ... (read in full...)
If muscle weighs more than fat...then how am I to loose actual weight?
Q. i want to loose weight and im on a dieting site but its best to exercise aswell whilst eating better foods but then i will develop more muscle and muscle weighs more than fat and i have a goal to reach but by doing exercises muscle will develop and ...
A. 10 August 2007: Don't look at the scales, look at how your clothes fit. Your "muscles" may weigh more on the scales, or about the same as before, but you'll be trimmer and leaner regardless. Exercise is key. It keeps things firm and compact (smaller waistline, ... (read in full...)
I want my marriage to last but I am so unhappy! How do I deal with this?
Q. I married and find myself to be unhappy and as more time go by, I seem to feel colder and colder inside. I love my wife but find myself not to be in love with her. We've been married for little over a year now and have a beautiful daughter about ...
A. 10 August 2007: Boy have I been in that situation! But you are really in a much tougher spot than I was because you have a child, I did not. Have you considered counseling? Try it for awhile and see if it helps in any way. You may grow to love this woman more ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been contacting his ex!
Q. My current boyfriend has been talking to his ex much more often as of late, and I've seen some of the messages they've sent to each other over MySpace, and it seems like they both still have feelings for eachother. I want to confront him, but I'm ...
A. 10 August 2007: If you've seen their messages on myspace, I'm assuming they're public knowledge, so tell him what you saw and ask him what's up? ... (read in full...)
I just want my husband back!
Q. I have been married for 18 years. I have two kids and raised my step daughter since age 2. Over the years, I had a great marriage. We always had an exciting sex life and looked forward to those intimate times. My Husband had full custody of his ...
A. 10 August 2007: Pray. This is a problem that can only be solved by God and your faith. Your husband obviously has a dark side. I am assuming this is the side of him that drew him to his previous wife to begin with. Apparently living a clean, healthy life ... (read in full...)
I was having sex with my ex-boyfriend and he called me "honey". Could that mean he still has feelings for me or do you think it was just the excitement of the moment?
Q. I was having sex with my ex-boyfriend and he called me "honey". Could that mean he still has feelings for me or do you think it was just the excitement of the moment? ...
A. 9 August 2007: Unless he cried out another woman's name, I wouldn't pay much attention to anything a man says, screams, or moans during sex. The question in my mind is - why are you still having sex with an ex-boyfriend?... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?
Q. I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...
A. 9 August 2007: Because there are better things you could be doing with your mind (and your body). Most people look at porn stars much like they do prostitutes. So if you want people to respect you, find another career. I'm sure you are a bright individual ... (read in full...)
Is there still a chance for me even if I get to 40 years old?
Q. Hi everybody, i am now 36 years old, i've got my past, i also have my 3 children from the past. im taking care of them alone finacially, everything. i got separated from my last relationship last 3 years ago. i never been married. this time i have ...
A. 9 August 2007: Good lord yes you have a chance! Look around you honey, there are lots of women older than you that find men and get married. Being 40 is not a death sentence by any means and neither is having 3 kids. He's out there, just keep looking!... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 9 August 2007: Well you don't mention how long the two of you have been seeing each other. Just because she goes out with you a few times and spends the night occassionally does not mean she's exclusive to you, or that she loves you. You may be thinking ... (read in full...)
I'm furious about pornography!
Q. The statement that some women make that they have no problem with their man watching porn as they know he CHOOSES to be with them seems ridiculus to me...Dont these women realise that their man probbly has as much chance of being with a porn star as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Perhaps you would choose to be Johnny Depp (or whichever movie star you find attractive) if you had the chance, but alas you do not and neither does your b/f have the chance to be with a porn star in reality. But he probably would if he could. ... (read in full...)
He knows that I hate porn... so when he came home with two videos on his mobile phone I hit the roof!
Q. Hi..... I have a little prblem.. It may seem silly to most but to me its a big deal.. I hate porn or any form relating to porn weather its a girl stripping or full sex I just hate it. My views on this is if a guy or a lassie has pron in thei...
A. 8 August 2007: Yes it's normal for him to look at porn (occassionally). Even men in committed relationships look at it sometimes, but most of us gals would rather NOT know about it. (It's so hard to measure up to someone who's been surgically enhanced and ... (read in full...)
I think my wife slept with her boss even though she denies it. What do I do?
Q. i have a problem and I need help. My wife has a weakness for entertaining men. We have been together for two years and we keep on fighting. Lately I've heard that she slept with her boss and when I asked her she denied it. I love her very much. I ...
A. 8 August 2007: When you say she entertains men, I don't know if you mean she tends to flirt with them (entertaining their attention), or if she actually invites them over, goes out for drinks with them, has lunch etc. Perhaps her job requires that she entertains ... (read in full...)
We're both dating other people but still want each other; should we cheat on our partners?
Q. I have been knowing a boy for about 5 years. We used to like each other but then went different ways. He now has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We still like each other so he asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. I don't know what to ...
A. 8 August 2007: Would you want someone you loved to cheat on you?.....Therein lies your answer. ... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 8 August 2007: You need to get better at knowing yourself and reading the signs in the relationship. Some people simply fall too quickly for someone and then they become blinded by their love, unaware that there's a problem until it's too late. You don't have to ... (read in full...)
When he asks why we're together or why I love him, I never know what to say
Q. i want to know how to communicate with your lover, when ever he talks about why you love him or why we are in to relationship. i cant answer and he looks like am not serious. i want to know how to alway talk with him. thanks...
A. 8 August 2007: Do you have trouble talking to other people to?...Or can you talk to your girlfriends like a babbling fool? If you can, then you just need to talk to him the same way. If you can't then you may need to think about what you'd like him to say if you ... (read in full...)
My brain won't shut down at night and I can't sleep, what can I do?
Q. Hi i've been having problems sleeping lately. people have always told me i have an over active imagination but i never thought anything of it.Recently i have been not able to sleep well even though i'm really tired. I can't keep my eyes opne but my ...
A. 8 August 2007: You are experiencing stress, perhaps for the first time ever. There are probably things going on in your life that are putting your brain into overdrive. It could be your school schedule, or personal issues with friends, family or romantic ... (read in full...)
She's an emotional mess, torn between her boyfriend and I; what should I do?
Q. Hi, all. Just some advice needed before i go crazy. Been involved in an emotional/sexual affair with someone i became friends with at work. She wouldnt get that way involved for months but we did and it was like we were in a bubble - amazing for ...
A. 8 August 2007: I would back out of this relationship for awhile until she figures out what she wants. If you remove yourself from the equation, she'll have to think on her own and decide whom she really wants to be with. It may not be you. But she should be able ... (read in full...)
We're getting married but I'm no longer sure how I feel
Q. ive been with my partner for 3 years we have 2 kids and are getting married next year.he is 39 and im 22. he only wants to sleep with me when he wants. one minute he will be all over me then next minute he will be distanced.i love him but i dont how ...
A. 8 August 2007: Whatever you do, don't get married. You may find yourself in the awkward position of paying him alimony if you are the one making the larger bucks in this relationship.... (read in full...)
I want to make him feel appreciated without all that slushy romantic stuff
Q. I am just wondering what can I do to make my b.f. know he's appreciated without actually telling him (he hates romantic crap and so do I) He has intimacy issues, and I do too. I am fine with this. But what can I do that isn't over the top? I am a ...
A. 8 August 2007: You could cook him something special, perhaps he has a favorite dish or dessert that's a bit of work to prepare so you don't cook it very often. Especially if your schedule is hectic, and you actually took the time to shop for the indredients and ... (read in full...)
Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice.
Q. Hello there! Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice. I have very low self esteem and my boyfriend knows how much I want to change myself. (Not for anyone, but myself). I ...
A. 7 August 2007: You just go out to Victoria Secret and you buy yourself the prettiest push up bra they have in your size and you may just be amazed at how those little babies are going to turn heads! Sometimes you just gotta dress up the package if you want to get ... (read in full...)
His friends take their girlfriends.
Q. My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings ...
A. 7 August 2007: I wouldn't put my foot down until I asked him outright why he doesn't take me, and they take their girlfriends? Secondly, how do you know they come along? There could be more to this story than you realize.... (read in full...)
I'm moving half way around the world - should I carry on a relationship with my wife or my mistress?
Q. This question is long because it's very complicated (even though I've simplified it quite a bit). Three years ago, I fell in love with a European girl and moved to Europe to be with her. I gave up a lot to make the move and it really was a blo...
A. 7 August 2007: You married a woman that you weren't sure you loved. You are about to move again halfway across the globe. I'd say leave them both, you obviously have no problem finding women. You'll find another one, maybe one you can be loyal to. ... (read in full...)
Whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal?
Q. Hi I've just recently met a guy I like a lot. The trouble is, whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal? I keep wretchin...
A. 7 August 2007: It's called love. And you got a bad case of it. Relax. It usually fades as the relationship grows.... (read in full...)
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