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*emale bert
writes:I have put on weight recently and dont let my boyfriend see me completly naked and he is getting upset about it, will he get bored and move on?
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reader, broken babe  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 if he loves you he shouldnt care tell him you feel a little bad lately and dont want to disgust him and if hes nice he'll look at you and say he doesnt care my boyfriend actually as a matter of fact told me he was happy i put some weight on i was really skinny and over the summer i got a little fat on my stomach more or less healthy fat and he pointed this out himself and told me he loves me and im perfect and hes happy im eating!! instead of starving myself or something and if that doesnt help do some exercise and let him know than let him see you naked if it bothers him he should remember that your working out
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reader, female bert +, writes (20 August 2007):
female bert is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm really grateful for all your advice thank-you very much, maybe i'm just being silly, he always says he loves me so i'm proberly reading too much into it, thanks
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reader, Manya +, writes (20 August 2007):
I know this feeling, but everyone's weight fluctuates. Heshould love you whether you're gaining or losing! If hegets "bored" about you being a little heavier, then he sounds awfully shallow! Some girls are too thin and itsdangerous, you may be having a growth spurt. You are youngand still physically maturing. Don't be so self conscious.Anyway, if he gets bored because you don't let him see you naked, then it sounds like he's just after the physical side of your relationship. Do you want someone like thatanyway? He should respect your desire to be private in anyevent.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 You've probably just filled out from being a skinny little girl, to being a woman. Don't sweat the extra pounds. Most men find curves to be much sexier than skin and bones anyhow. Just remember that. And if he still wants to see you naked, that's a good sign. Don't deny the man! Flash him some skin once in awhile, he'll love it. Good luck.
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reader, skyebabe +, writes (20 August 2007):
 IF HE LOVES U THAT MUCH HE FEEL LOVE U FOR WOT U ARE NOT WOT HE WANTS U TO BE JUST ACT THE SAME AS U DID XX
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reader, in love and confused  +, writes (20 August 2007):
If your boyfriend does have a problem of seeing you for who u are then he is not worth the time of day. be happy within your own skin, if your not happy with ur body then exercise and eat healthy, but only make changes if ur not happy not your boyfriend
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (20 August 2007):
 if he leaves you because of your weight gain and size he is not worth the trouble and your time.
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reader, love-him +, writes (20 August 2007):
 hey bbe, if your boyfriend is gettin upset, it is probly because he feels u dont trust him to not laught or leave you because u gained weight.. If your boyfriend moves on and gets bored then he isnt worth the hassel.. u shouldnt worry bbe.. mail me if u want to talk hope i helped xxx
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