Just as we were about to start dating his ex came and stole him right back
Q. ...I meet a guy at my fathers auto shop, he was doing co-op there during school..anyway we started talking and became close but when we started talking about going on a date his ex girlfriend who left him for some franch guy comes back out of the ...
A. 24 July 2007: He's obviously still interested in his ex. There's not much you can to do change that. You could try waiting, afterall she may twist off on him again and leave him hanging. But then again, would you ever feel good if he returned to you simply ... (read in full...)
I love her so much and can't forget her even though she was selfish and mean to me
Q. hey ladies any advice will help Well here it goes i've been with this girl for about 2 years on and off we r both 28 years old and have known each other since we were childern. For the last 2 years she has been treating me pretty badly we have had...
A. 19 July 2007: I want you to sit down and make a list of all the things your ex-girlfriend did to you that mean, unreasonable, selfish and cruel. You know, sort of a "101 Things I Hated About You" and be brutally honest with yourself. Then I want you to sit down ... (read in full...)
We're cuddly after our fights but we're fighting far too much
Q. Okay Help My boyfriend and I are fighting too much. But after the fights we are all hunky dory and cuddley. But the thing is were fighting TOO much every day. It's making me wory,I dont like it at all its unbarable. I love him too much to loose him...
A. 19 July 2007: Your both butting heads because you both want to lead. It can't be done 100% of the time. One of you must lead, the other must follow. Usually it's the man who feels the need to lead. This doesn't mean you have to kiss his ass all the time and ... (read in full...)
He wants to see her on his birthday, but not me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years.For some reason every so often he gives his number to other girls at his work and texts them behind my back,but I found out about the one just recently because I felt suspicious.Anyway,Its his ...
A. 19 July 2007: He's obviously still playing the field and clearly acting like he's still single, unattached, and interested in seeing other women. Unless you want to continue "sharing" him with other women, you need to pack your bags and get away from him now. ... (read in full...)
He is texting other girls and complimenting them. I dont THINK I have anything to worry about, but why is he doing this?
Q. Ive got 2 questions Ive been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 years who works in a hospital,where there are lots of female workers.He says he wants to make new friends, I know he chats to these women at work,which is harmless,because I know he loves me.Howev...
A. 19 July 2007: Why doesn't he have any male friends? Then it would be no big deal. So let's look at the facts: He stopped complimenting you and acting interested. He's "friends" with other women and seems generous with his praise. He's secretive. I smell ... (read in full...)
What is the meaning of my dream???
Q. Hi I am asking for help because last night I had a dream that really scared me. Now this is kind of embarrassing because it is so odd, but it is now making me wonder if I am gay. Previously I have asked for help on this site because I have h...
A. 7 July 2007: Maybe you just haven't kissed the right girl yet. Attraction and chemistry are big factors in making someone feel connected and interested in another person. You say you have had some bad experiences with girls in the past, I don't really know ... (read in full...)
Why does he not treat me like a princess any more? Why is this eating me up inside? I tell myself over and over I'm being silly. HELP.
Q. I've been married for seven years now and over the past few months my emotions seem to be getting out of control. My husband started the marriage being very attentive and caring. I was in no doubt that he loved me. He would do anyhing for me but as ...
A. 5 July 2007: Here's a thought. Plan a nice evening together, it can be at a nice restaurant, or home with candles burning. Cook him a nice meal. Make him feel like the King. Then spend some time, telling him how much you love and appreciate him. Then at the ... (read in full...)
What is the meaning of my dream???
Q. Hi I am asking for help because last night I had a dream that really scared me. Now this is kind of embarrassing because it is so odd, but it is now making me wonder if I am gay. Previously I have asked for help on this site because I have h...
A. 5 July 2007: Dreams are nothing more than our subconscious "blender" whirling together thoughts, images, events, people and things we have seen, heard about, thought about, read about, watched on TV and daydreamed on. I wouldn't spend too much time thinking ... (read in full...)
Maybe the reason why I find my boyfriend's best friend attractive is because I am unhappy with our relationship
Q. I have this problem. Maybe the reason why I find my boyfriend's best friend attractive is because I am unhappy with our relationship, because of my boyfriend's attitude: Sometimes, he so immature. He can't understand the reason why I am always ...
A. 5 July 2007: Sometimes we find other people attractive because well, they are. It doesn't mean we have to act on it. If you love your b/f then focus your attention there. Try talking to him in a non-nagging way, about the things he does that bother you. Try ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend always go after the boys I like?
Q. I have this friend and she goes after any boy I like it's not fair, I was going out with a boy and all of a sudden she liked him and now I like a different boy and he likes me but she likes him too and I think he likes her more because they're ...
A. 5 July 2007: It's called competitiveness-out-of-control. Always wanting what someone else has. Enjoying the challenge of seeing if you can steal it. My advice is, find another friend. Friendships are built on trust and if you can't trust your "friend" you ... (read in full...)
I'm worried because my heart pumps really fast! Is this normal?
Q. Recently even now, my heart has been pumping really fast. I don't know what is this caused by. It could be the food I am eating or my nervousness. I am worried about this....
A. 5 July 2007: There are a number of things that could be stimulating your heart rate: Caffeine (cokes, coffee, tea and chocolate can be the culprit). Sugar can also speed up the heart rate and make you shaky and weak feeling as well, especially if yo... (read in full...)
For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring?
Q. For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring? I was having lunch with a buddy of mine when this topic came up. Occasionally, when I am among women, I catch them ogling my wedding ring. If they end up maki...
A. 28 June 2007: It could be different things. A women might glance at your wedding ring, to see if your married and therefore off her list. A another woman might be getting married soon, and has been looking at wedding bands, she may glance at yours to check out ... (read in full...)
How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife?
Q. How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife? She doesnt do anything but lay around while im at work, and then expect me to do dishes, laundry, and clean the house. Should i just quit doing everything? Granted we have a two and four year old, but ...
A. 28 June 2007: There are two things you should do. One, is ask her why she doesn't get anything done all day. Is she spending all day on the couch watching the telly, surfing the webs in chat rooms, or is she spending alot of time with the kids, going to the ... (read in full...)
Is there fire with that smoke?
Q. i am 17 and i like this guy he is 19, but he has a girlfriend. we all no she isn't good for him but there is nothing we can do. i don't no whether my feelings for him are love or lust. when we meet we both can't help but smile at each other, when we ...
A. 27 June 2007: I guess since you are on good terms with him, you might tease him once in awhile and say, "What are you doing with that girl, when you could be with me?" You could also try pointing out why she's no good for him, but I doubt he'll ever see the ... (read in full...)
I love this girl, but she is married and doesn't want to wreck her home
Q. i have an ex girlfriend who is already married and has a baby . she got pregnant before she married . she told me she doint like the boy who impregnanted her and asked me if i coud still marry her if she gave birth. i agreed but later requested her ...
A. 27 June 2007: I think she's very scared about being alone, and very confused about what she wants. She got involved with a guy who turned out to be a disappointment, but made the colossial mistake of not using birth control so now she is forever tied to this man ... (read in full...)
Update: How do I apologise to my teacher for bullying her?
Q. Hi yet again its me, Im writing about the teacher I bullied again. I was walking down a corridor alone today at lunch time and the teacher was shouting at a pupil for bullying. Suddenly she looked at me turned to the girl n errupted, she sa...
A. 27 June 2007: Write her a note if your too embarrassed to face her. Just be sincere and then don't do anything like that again. Live and learn.... (read in full...)
How do I make sure that it's me who he wants?
Q. well my bf and i have been going out for a week and my best friend likes him too well alot of girls like him so how do i make sure that he likes me for who i am not becasue i am one of the girls that like him? thax 4 the help...
A. 27 June 2007: Well he's going out with you, isn't he?....I'd say that's a pretty good sign. Enjoy it and don't worry about the other girls who like him. ... (read in full...)
Update: I want to go on holiday with my female friends and my gf doesn't like it.
Q. (@dearCupid: sorry if this question is the same, but something doesn't seem to work. I also could not make an update on my previous question. The computer didn't recognise me a the one who originally posted the question. So I do it this way.) Hi! ...
A. 27 June 2007: There is nothing you can do that will make her feel "ok" with this. You may not think this has anything to do with trust, but it does. She may feel left out. She may feel hurt that you're planning to be gone during her birthday. She may be ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about having a penis that is 5 inches?
Q. I am 21 year old and my penis size is 5 inches !Should i worry about it ? ...
A. 2 October 2006: That depends. Is it 5 inches long at rest?.....or is it 5 inches long when erect?.....I'm assuming the latter. Size does matter, but I can honestly tell you bigger is not necessarily better. I was with a man for a number of years who had a...uh, ... (read in full...)
He's talking of having a vasectomy but what would a life without kids hold?
Q. I'm 23 and my bf is 25. We have been going out for a year and is very serious about our relationship. My bf had a kid when he was 19. He married the mother of the child but was divorced because she cheated on him. I understand he had to force ...
A. 2 October 2006: You and your b/f are both very young (I know, I know you probably hate hearing that but trust me -- I'm 46 and I still remember how I thought at 25 and I still had so much to learn in life!)...If at all possible, your b/f should NOT have the ... (read in full...)
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