I'm feeling insecure about my looks. Can you help?
Q. I am feeling so ugly right now. All my life i wanted pretty fetures. i have nice ears... great... but i have a HUGE nose and nostrils and a horrble double chin.. ok tripple chin..... i feel so ugly.. even though many think im not.. and sometime...
A. 6 December 2007: Nearly almost everyone doesn't like their features or themselves in general.
The truth is you are who you are. When others say that you are pretty, believe them. What you think about yourself isn't what other people see and until you realise ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone too much??
Q. I feel as if i'm truly in love with my boyfriend the only problem is that im going through love trauma. I fight and throw things when i can't see him. Is it harmful to love a person too much? It's like he got something over me, it's like he likes it...
A. 5 December 2007: I think I love my boyfriend too much. I shout at everyone when I can't see him and I nearly suffocate him when he's with me. I've just learnt to find things to take my mind off him in my hours of needing him.
But I don't think that it can be h... (read in full...)
Should I choose him or her??
Q. Alrite, i know that i tend to use this site alot but i am a very confused teen (15). I just wanted to say thank-you to everyone who is takin their time to read this and attempt to help me out. Alrite, this is the him or her question. First of all, ...
A. 5 December 2007: I always say that if you can't make up your mind don't pick at all.
This way you wont be hurting your friends by only choosing one of them.
Good Luck =]
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I love my bf but fantasize about this other guy? What do I do?
Q. I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend (let's say Ashley) for over two years, and until recently I was very happy about it. We have seen each other 6 days a week since we got together, and on the seventh we spend hours on the phone. I realise how ...
A. 5 December 2007: I had the same problem as you.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now and this other guy was also in the picture. I can't bear thinking about what would happen if I carried out my descision of leaving my boyfriend for the othe... (read in full...)
Help! I turn into a bumbling idiot just thinking of him!!
Q. I've been a regular patron of a lounge in my area for about 5 years now. In the past I have casually dated a few men I've met there, however try to keep things just friendly as I don't want my life to play out like a bad season of "Cheers" lol. ...
A. 4 December 2007: I reckon you should go for it and ask him for a date. It's okay to feel nervous when you're around him and you might even feel silly if you ask him but what's the worse that can happen? Give him a call and arrange a night out, hopefully then y... (read in full...)
How to let him down easy without lying?
Q. I'm bisexual leaning toward gay, but I haven't come out to most people yet. I'm falling for a friend who doesn't want to be with me, and now another one of my friends wants to get dinner and "talk." I'm afraid that he's going to tell me he likes ...
A. 4 December 2007: It's not an easy situation and lying really wont help because eventually that will hurt your friend even more. The best thing to do is to be honest. If he tells you that he does like you just tell him that you like him back but as a friend and that... (read in full...)
I'm scared but I know I'm ready.
Q. I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready....
A. 2 December 2007: If he knows that you're a virgin then he should be gentle but if you think he might get carried away ask him to go slow. It might hurt or feel uncomfortable at first so let him know how it feels and stop him if you're really uncomfor... (read in full...)
I've liked him for 9 months and I was ready to tell him but it went wrong.
Q. Okay, so i've liked this guy for 9 months now, yesterday was the first day I was completely ready to tell him, but I knew it was going to be difficult because there were so many people around us, as it was a day out I planned for my birthday. I was ...
A. 2 December 2007: Sounds like you really like this guy. And by the sounds of it he must like you too if he treats you differently. Next time you see him go up to him and ask if you can talk to him in private. Then tell him how you feel. If it comes from the h... (read in full...)
I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out.
Q. I may be wrong about this, but I think you may be able to help me. You see, I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out. Funny thing is, the guy I like is also single too and shows signs of ...
A. 15 August 2007: Well it's best for you to make the first move. If he's showing signs of interest then go for it!
But don't feel too bad if he says no, it wont be the end of the world.
Most boys like it when the girl makes the first move but don't worry, you... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex, but i'm scared.
Q. ok i'm 13 and me and my bf who is 14 have been going out for 3 in a half months i love him with all my heart but he wants to have sex in La in 2 weeks i want to but im scared i dont want to get pregnant what do i do HELP!!!!! plez ...
A. 13 August 2007: First off, you're 13! As much as in love you think you are 13 isn't the best age to lose your virginity. Really I would advise that you do not have sex. Being scared is your body telling you that you are not ready for sex. If you can, talk to ... (read in full...)
MY bf is emotionally abusive, but it's hard to break up with him! Help!
Q. My bf has been emotionally abusive towards me. He tells me no one else will put up with me. He threatens to break up with me to get his own way. Whenever he's not in a good mood he yells at me and makes me feel guilty for anything I do until I say ...
A. 13 August 2007: Well done for leaving him! You did the right thing. It is going to be hard to cope but now you're single so try and enjoy it. Try going out where your age group hangs out and mingle. Flirt with the guys you like and get to know them and so... (read in full...)
How can i stop bullying from happening?
Q. i am going to be starting a new school this fall. I find it really hard to make new friends b/c i'm shy, very quiet,and don't know what to say. I even run out of questions to ask. I am worried that i may be a target for bullying, and being made fun ...
A. 11 August 2007: You can't really stop people from bullying. The people who bully are usually the stupid snuck up 'pretty' people who think they are better than you. Just try and make friends and they should stick up for you in school if you do get bullied and ... (read in full...)
If muscle weighs more than fat...then how am I to loose actual weight?
Q. i want to loose weight and im on a dieting site but its best to exercise aswell whilst eating better foods but then i will develop more muscle and muscle weighs more than fat and i have a goal to reach but by doing exercises muscle will develop and ...
A. 10 August 2007: Go to a local gym and ask about exercise routines or just go for a walk everyday for about an hour. And of course eat healthily.
I hope you reach your goal =]
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MY bf is emotionally abusive, but it's hard to break up with him! Help!
Q. My bf has been emotionally abusive towards me. He tells me no one else will put up with me. He threatens to break up with me to get his own way. Whenever he's not in a good mood he yells at me and makes me feel guilty for anything I do until I say ...
A. 10 August 2007: Leave him. He is so not worth it. There are plenty of other decent guys out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve. ... (read in full...)
She loves me but said that whenever we argue, she thinks of this other guy she likes!
Q. I need help. The other week my girlfriend said, she likes someone else. But she insists she still loves me. She told me that whenever we argue she cant get him out of her mind. But she insists she still loves me and is willing not to talk to him e...
A. 10 August 2007: If she says she loves you and that she won't talk to him ever then really you should trust her, unless she's the kind of girl that lies to you often.
And if you love her so much then stay with her, spend more time with her and sooner or later sh... (read in full...)
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