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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is this how disagreements should pan out? When I argue with her I feel completely emasculated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi there So me and my girlfriend were supposed to go away this weekend leaving on Friday. Now I had a sports game on the Friday afternoon and I needed to sort out the times of the game before I could confirm with her if I would play or if I wou...

Break up or stay with her? She's warned me that she may want to sleep with another guy, just randomly, in the future.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has told me that she thinks there will come a time when she wants to sleep with another guy just randomly. She said she doesn't know when. She said that she now considered us to be only slightly more than friends but wants to stil...

How can I get out of this confused mess that's happened since I split up with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - im in a right mess split up with my ex. A few months back we occasionally slept together i recently found out he was dating this girl. I felt really hurt as he had slept with me two days before i found out. I went mad and messaged her to tell her ...

His family are polygamist. That's why my parents are against me seeing my Bf. How can I get my parents to accept my Bf?,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am 18 yrs old and in my first year of college. I have been seeing this amazing guy (Matt) since early september. He is sweet,funny, fun and just an all around nice guy. He is very focused on school and works a part time job. My parents met him ...

Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Or does it grow with time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles My questiom is simple Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Five months in now and im just not feeling it... She tells me she loves me a lot which makes me think lots there for her.... Should i end this ...

How can I get my boyfriend back? My lies caused the break up. I lied because I knew he would not like the truth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now, on and off. He has always complained about my lying but the thing is then I did it to protect him since I knew he wouldn't like the truth. I know now it was stupid of me. Everyt...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

He acts like every little problem is doomsday. Is this relationship viable? For a long term future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am losing feelings for my boyfriend. I am 44, he is 47. We have been dating for almost 2 years. He works too much and we hardly ever see each other. I keep telling myself that I'm getting used to it...but I'm not. I feel sorry for myself...

Some basic rules that will help you to have better dating experiences. Can you add to the list?

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31 October 2012 (M) - It's been a while since I was last here, and I've changed A LOT since then. I'm currently in college, single, and looking into a lot of things I haven't thought about before, until I made the friends I have in college. Haha. Well, I'm learni...

Did my alcoholic husband cheat on me, and was it to get back at me for cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My husband has a drinking problem and likes to stay out later than I think is right especially on weekday nights. Things haven't been going well for us and on Monday we decided that he should stay in the camper for a little while. On Thursday...

Boyfriend often visits Facebook of a sexy bikini girl as an entertainment. Is it okay for a serious relationship with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. The matter I'm going to talk about is: Faithfulness! (oh yeah old issue) *** Brief of the matter: I've just found out he often visits Facebook page of a sexy party clubbing young girl; and sometimes leaves comments, link of song, fl...

Why is it that he only really talks to me when he's horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys so my boyfriend and I and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Something that I noticed in our relationship is that he only really talks to me when he's horny. I try to make conversation with him but he always runs that...

Random girls? no problem. So why do I have semi-ED with girls I really like ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, i have this lil problem thats driving me crazy :( here is the situation, its about premature ejaculation but the thing is , it never happens to me with random girls that i randomly pick up at clubs and bars. i can last as long as ...

Too many arguments. Where is our relationship going? Whats the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a few arguments recently. Each time, it comes back to 'where is this going' (our relationship). We have been together for 3+ years but on a few things we can't agree on, so each time, he always brings it back to where is...

For Girls: First Impressions when you meet a guy - is 5 foot six inches tall enough for you? Or do you prefer taller?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello This question is mostly for girls Do you find attractive a guy who is 5.6 feet or maybe girls want a guy who is taller. Well I know some responses may be 'a guy must be loyal,caring etc' but my question is related with first impression. T...

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'rem...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (bu...

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recent...

Your perfect match is out there, waiting to meet you. Never give up hope.

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30 October 2012 (F) - When you are dating, or in a long term relationship, or married, i wouild like to say how to keep it going. Every relationship takes a lot of work and it takes two to tango, and a lot of balance and patence and love. So take your time and dont rus...

Why is he so interested to see the inside of my home? Does this mean he wants to get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hello y'all , I have been dating a guy for a few months - close to 3, but I have known him for a while. We were friends before anything happend. Things seem to be going well, we don't text every day, more like every other and I see him once, so...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

Does she really like me? Could she be afraid to tell the world that she is into girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. I am a 17 year old female who is bisexual. Around the beginning of September my friend had started taking this girl to school with us in the morning. I had thought nothing of it until her and I actually began talking. We have...

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...

The problem here is that we can't do certain positions when we make love. Would this problem be the result of the size of my penis? (4 inches)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Ok so me and my gf are living a pretty good sex life.. even though I am young we are sexually active.. Ok so the problem here is that we can't do certain positions and I was wondering if it had anything to do with my penis size.. I am only 4 inches...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

What are some of the things I could try to encourage my bi-sexual Significant Other to be more demonstrative and verbally expressive during love making?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - So here is the situation my SO and I have a great relationship and he is bisexual and I'm ok with that we have a good time talking about different things and I'll admit it makes watching chick flicks and going clothes shopping a lot easier lol Bu...

Why does his Dad hate me so much? How should I deal with this, considering my Bf is in the middle of all this disagreement about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My bf and I have just recently celebrated our one year anniversary. We get along great, hes my best friend. We've had some hardships, however. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. The father isnt in the picture, hasnt been since before s...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked ...

He's a great guy, but modestly uptight...should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hey Cupid, I need some advice. I struck up a conversation with this guy over the summer and we hit it off pretty well. Since our second date, we've established contact on the phone and he's a nice guy to talk to. Personally I feel as thou...

How can I encourage a girl to love me again? Because she hates me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and...

Is it normal to get on so well with a mother in law?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I am getting married in six months to my boyfriend of 4 years. I have known my fiancé since we were toddlers, and know his parents for almost as long. His parents like me a lot, and mine like him. I get on really we with my (soon to be) mother i...

Is she hinting to me that she wants a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid! I'm really needing some help here?! I met a lady back in February. She's a really, really nice lady. She's older than me. She's 39. I'm 34 in a few days. Anyway, it was one of those 'The minute we laid eyes upon one another we fe...

My husband sides with his sister not me. How do I end this argurment and not feel aggrieved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I really need some help here as I am going round in circles. I have had a massive falling out with my sister in law and we have had nothing to do with each other for about 18 months. My husband sided with her in the argument so naturally things h...

She created a fake profile to talk with him after telling me she'd deleted him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - true issues. please help she made a fake profile on Facebook to talk to a guy behind my back, what should i do? Long story short, we had some trust issues because of this guy, she said she would block and delete him, she did that, then recently...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

Am I drinking to the point where my caffeine intake is too high? I've switched to black tea now. is that better for my health?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I used to buy coffee from [biggest coffee chain in America] every day. I got hooked on the caffeine. The expenses were adding up so I switched to black tea by the same company which was cheaper. Now I buy black tea in bulk from supermarkets (10...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

She thinks I'm telling lies. So many misunderstandings. How do I convince her that I am the one telling the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - i posted a question a couple weeks back and got some good feedback. i wanted to see if i couldn't get a few more opinions and elaborate on the most recent happenings. about six weeks ago, my girlfriend had asked to use my phone to look something u...

What can I do? My love has faded. I don't know how to break up with him. And I cry just thinking about breaking up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I need help..I've fallen out of love with my boyfriend. Been together for six months..i thought he couldn't handle commitment, and that he only wanted sex but he seems to put more effort into the relationship and i can see that he's really changing ...

Why is it that black men or Indian men or Chinese men NEVER approach me to date me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I'm of Indian origin but don't look stereotypically Indian. Most people find me too light skinned to be Indian and always think I'm half Indian. I'm pretty tall and have done ballet for years, so I'd say I have a pretty good figure. I'm quite skin...

I'm confused, because after 3 months she says she only wants to be friends. Why? is it just stress that's made this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I met a girl online. We talked on the site for over a month before she gave me her number Then after that, we texted and talked on the phone for 2 weeks before we went on a date. Sense then, we've gone out everyweekend for 2 months, sometimes tw...

Does he actually not like me and is he showing me that by pretty much ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for several months, we broke up for 6 months and I saw him again and we reconnected. It was what seemed a fresh start where we talked about how we hoped to have a future together. But he is in the military and got stationed on the...

What is the best way to support and deal with an emotionally damaged boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. We met online and before I got into this relationship I knew he was damaged. All I know that one or more past girlfriends have cheated on him other than that I don't know a lot. He is very gua...