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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My wife has been keeping secrets from me. What did she do in Vegas?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I were in Venice sitting on a hotel balcony overlooking the Grand Canal. We were joined by 2 girls in their mid 20s and a boy about the same age. Conversation let to what our favorite city was. When my wife's turn came she stated h...

We dated for a year. Then were told we're related. Is it wrong to stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this guy a year now and he's everything I wanted in a man. After the year was up we were told we were related. That hurt me to the core. We care for each other so much. Is it wrong to not let go? I wish I would have known...

Is this just a rebound move on my part, considering I only just broke up with my Gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - Hey- This may be a bit silly, but I was just wondering and I wanted to know what everyone thought. My girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me out of nowhere about a month ago (there was distance, and a lot of outside circumstanc...

His Porn addiction is getting worse. It's bothering me. How do I raise my concerns so he'll listen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (?) - I've been dating the same fellow for a couple of years now and the last number of months has giving me grown concern and I'm not sure how to approach or even handle this situation. I've always known that he has had tendencies to watch porn and boot...

What happened to the concept that guys like a natural look? I'm invisible to guys when I go out with her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Can someone explain what is so amazing about my friend that everyone likes her and all the guys i meet first meet first, set her and then want her!! On nights out she gets so much male attention you would think she was megan fox. She's mixed rac...

I get too wet during sex and it worries me that he can't feel me properly. Is there a solution possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone... Okay this is a kind of embarrassing problem and i'm really paranoid about it , its starting to affect my confidence and my sex life. So iv'e got 2 children 7 and 8 and im a good weight, healthy etc, thing is though, quite a lot late...

I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...

He's 64 and I'm not interested. How do I discourage him without ruining the car share system that benefits us all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I am part of a car share group where one drives and the other three are passengers. We rotate who drives. It works OK. In fact it's very convenient. But two days out of every fortnight there are either one or two of the others not present. Thes occ...

Would it be best to wait? New relationship: Is there really anytime where sex is to soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - after having my daughter 5 months ago, and her father leaving me while i was pregnant .. I Finally met someone amazing . He Makes me laugh , has a great personality , extreamly attractive , has a lot of things going for himself There's nothi...

What is the exact way to deal with people who are egotistical but don't express their emotions easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Okay, it seems that Guys who have the following characteristics are Egotistical to the max. Characteristics: Intelligent, Sophisticated, Reserved, Frank, Straightforward, Don't express emotions easily. Ive seen that such people are not chest-bea...

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not wa...

Co-worker who I can't avoid. Why is she manipulative and cold with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I need help with a woman that I come into contact with in relation to my work. We're not co-workers exactly, but she now teaches in the college where I am currently researching - she dropped out of PhD research to become a tutor whilst I carried ...

He makes racist inappropriate comments. Now it seems he may have been seeing a local prostitute of the same race he vilifies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 40. He makes comments all the time if we are out and see an oriental woman with a man he immediately says "oh look it's bought your wife". He even said that my friend who was 27 and going out with a 42 year old was going ou...

He's been an idiot to me. And now he's asking me what I'll name my children? is he just messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have history with a guy I've known since I was three. He's the same age as me, (15/16) and he's been a bit of a pain to me. He's messed with my feeling, said he liked me when he didn't, kissed me and used me. I've loved him for three years ...

I didn't cheat. How do I convince her? She will not talk to me, so what can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (?) - My girlfriend of two years left me because she thinks I cheated on her But I didn't ... I tried to talk to her, to tell her the truth, but she will not talk to me at all. Seh has blocked me from her phone ... I'm soo. Soo in love with her my hear...

She belittles me in public. Should I stay friends with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - My girl friend is from a richer home than me. i'm broke she can't assist me financially. When ever we are out for an outing and we happen to get into one dissagreement or the other,she tends to talk too recklessly and shout at me on the top of he...

My ex is pleading for me to come back. How do I tell him I've fallen in love with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about a month ago. I just didn't feel like I was in love anymore and I want to feel this way and be happy/not miserable for the rest of my life. We had two dogs and lived together in a fairly ...

Why would an almost stranger go through my bag in these circumstances?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - This is a very little matter indeed, but I come to you to find out (or confirm) if it is weird. I'm working with a family - a Father and daughter... they have asked me to adapt their daughter's book that she wrote when she was 6 into a play. Alr...

What can I do? I feel embarrassed about how to approach a guy I used when we went on holidays together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I've done something so terrible and feeling bad about it. I went on a trip with a guy in summer and there i was mourning and crying about my ex all the time and he comforted me and was there for me instead of being mad at me he was being a good...

Internet Online Dating and serious relationships - isn't it just truly a waste of time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so disillusioned with internet dating. Over the past few years I have joined a few dating websites hoping that at some point I will meet a man, who I get along with, have similar interests/humour, share the same values in life,...

She's not just curvy anymore. I love my wife and she means a lot to me but why does she ignore my request that she please keep in shape? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - I have an issue. My wife and I have been together for 9 and a half year and married for 8. When we first started dating she was always trying to stay in shape. All the way up to our 4th year of being together. Then she decided to get too relax...