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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My LDR has just told me he has met someone new and intends to marry her. Why am I so emotional over this change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My long distance boy friend has confirmed to me today that he has a new woman in his life and he may marry her. Why am I so sad and crying? Please help me. I am an adult and should know better than getting emotional. he wants me to write to h...

What does it imply about the intentions of guy A, when guy A told guy B to stop flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - What does it mean when a guy tells another guy to stop flirting with me the guy that said stop told me he started having feelings for me one week ago and the other guy we just talk a little at school...

Is he embarassed when he sees me because he knows that I really really like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - the guy I like is my neighbour in the student hostel i am not sure if he knows for sure I like him (I liked his Facebook pic but he did the same, I visited in his room once him but he visited me often, I wrote him on Facebook he didn't) but this ...

She thinks we are platonic friends. I have had a huge crush on her for ages. Should I let her move in with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have a rather huge problem. i'm in college, right. And a friend from high school, a female friend, that i've known for three years also goes to the same college as me. We hang out a lot and i do have a huge crush on her, but I never told her. The...

How does one get past being cheated on? I'm having anxiety attacks over it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - How do you move past being cheated on? I've tried I get anxiety attacks and I don't feel good enough for anyone. I've even sat around and cried is it something I did what can I do to ensure this wont happen again....

I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Should I have just said nothing at all? Her erratic behaviour on the vacation was too much for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - should i just not say anything at all I went on a vacation with one of my husbands former co worker. Its not like she was my friend or anything like that. I just knew her and because we saw each other very seldom, she seemed ok for me to travel...

Should I feel guilt or shame? I am having a relationship with a guy who used to be best friends with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (?) - I am having secret relationship with my ex-husband no longer former best friend's, is this trouble or what? Here is the background of how and why this developed. It started eight months after I left and filed for divorce. That is NOT why I left a...

Are these signs that my sex buddy is falling for me? I don't want her to get hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - So here is the deal: I met this really hot girl, she happened to like me back. She told me straight up she has no interest in relationship and so we started meeting to have some amazing (and I mean it) sex. Now, I should be happy with this arra...

He broke it off. But he still hangs around us a lot. I know he get depressed. But could he be having second thoughts about the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi things came to a sudden end in august we were together for 6 years we have children and he sees them regular, we have slept with eachother a few times, he seems to be hanging round a lot one min and not as much the next he says hes not interested ...

I no longer know if I want to get married. So how do I bring up the subject to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has been looking up engagement rings lately. Im happy and flattered. We talked about marriage before and i used to be excited about it. I love him very much and i know he loves me. We have had our trials but we have gott...

How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...

My husband contributes and so does my Mom. Is my boyfriend contributing enough to live most of the time in my home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been separated from my husband for over 2 years. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for 2 years. I live in a house with my three sons and my Mother. My ex husband presently pays $3500 per month for the mortgage and taxes He also gi...

Is it because she has already done it all? She's been wild sexually in the past with others. Now she is happy with if fortnightly.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have a question and I was hoping I could get some insight from the females on here. I will try to keep it short, but I feel I have to give a little background so you guys know the full story. Both my girlfriend and I are pretty close to getting...

Guys, if you're not interested in a girl, would you still talk to her every day online for long hours?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hey,guys,if you're not interested in a girl on a romantic level,would you take the initiative to talk to her EVERY DAY for long hours(6-7 hours) on facebook chat or msn or even hang out with her one-on-one? If you're not interested in her,would you ...

What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...

My cousin has a Gf. And he and I flirt a lot. I am still a virgin. Should I agree to sex with him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi guys! Hope you can help me. I am a shy type of girl but i do flirted with my first cousin. Its my 3rd time to meet him last january. He's from jersey,he lives there, he's d same guy i wrote here last 2010 http://www.dearcup...

How long do I wait? He had an affair. Now he's returned to me, his wife of 40 years. But claims he no longer has any sex drive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My husband has had an affair with a woman at his work for the last 8 months. I found out throught his text messages. He confessed everything(almost). He won't give me the details.)he thinks they will only hurt me more). He has ended it but he ...

Any tips on how to restore some calm into this fractured family? A very dominating sister in law causes me the most pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hey all. Just wanted an outlet I suppose. Bit of background... My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 2 children. We are having dramas with his sister. She's very domaninating - does whatever she pleases. We've had co...

My Boss is a farewell next week. We don't click socially and I am not part of her clique. Should I attend or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My boss is leaving for 1 year next week.I dont work with her much but see her at shift change at times. We are similiar in age, but are VERY differerent, shes outgoing AND popular, esp amongst the 20 somethings at work. Im a quieter person, w...

This guy calls me a lesbian. He says he does it for a joke. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I have this friend who likes to joke around and call me a lesbian. I have asked a numbers of times not to call me a lesbian and he keeps saying, "oh lighten up i am only Joking". I have told him please stop it. he always says "I am Joking". Ye...

I am truly doubting my decision to break up. Despite his failings, did I make a mistake to break up with him? Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last Friday and I'm starting to doubt my decision. Did I make a mistake? We had been together for a little over two years and we had been in a LDR for six months (I was the one who had to move due to my dad's job). I...

Is it over with this guy? He has lots of reasons he says he is busy. Is this his way of ending the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hello, i met this guy about 4 months ago. everything was going well. Until his mom died. After that he is in charge of all the affairs related, at the same time he is going to be retired soon and he is an executive and has a lot to do at work, and...

I walked in on my 17 year old cousin masturbating. Do I need to set some boundaries, considering my freaked out reaction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hey, sonething happened to me this morning and its been freaking me out all day and ive been really confused. i totally forgot about you guys and i would really appreciate some help. I'm 18 years old and my cousin,17, has been living with me t...

I am so in love with her. But my friend's actions with her, prior to us being a couple, make me feel bad. How do I learn from this? Stay? Or breakup?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm in my first relationship with a girl i am madly in love with and have been dating her for nearly a year. she was the first and only person i've kissed or done anything with physically and are relationship is really really good and we have been...

I get very wound up. But he ends up making me feel guilty. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we're both in our early twenties. We've never had a proper argument, never had a shouting match, never stormed out on the other. What we do have is probably more of a problem on my part, but his ...

He's really cute, BUT : 'does he like me?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I was at a party (we are in our twenties) for our students on the Dean's List. Anyway there was a really cute guy there and we talked on and off through the party and at one point I looked at him across the room and and we made eye contact (this ...

How can this be resolved? I have a feeling that my Bf does not want to tell his family that he has a daughter almost 3 years old.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18, and I have a daughter who turns 3 in December Basically, I fell pregnant and I didn't find out until i was 14 weeks pregnant, I'm still with the childs father but here's the tricky part, 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, my...