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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

It's annoying me that I've never had a Bf. What should I do to remedy the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have just turned 24 and its annoying me that i have never had a boyfriend i get told nice things about my looks and people are shocked i dont have a boyfriend, i just dont get it. I am shy but i thought if a guy liked you he would make a point...

What do you guys think about a male engagement ring to show that the man is betrothed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - what do guys think about wearing an engagement ring? my bf of 2 years proposed to me out of the blue 6 weeks ago. i was shocked, happy and said yes! when we talked about marriage months ago, i recall he said he thought a man should do the prop...

I love him, but I need to understand if his sexual fetishes are OK or not? One example: He likes me to dress as a school girl when we have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - To give you a bit of background I'm not very sexually experienced. I've slept with two people in long-term relationships before my current partner and he is my third sexual partner (he is 23). In both my previous relationships, I had passionate, ...

I know I get jealous but is it normal for a man to keep so many online pictures of women he has known or knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So my fiance of 10 months now is wonderful. My only concern is that he has a thing for having girl friends on his xbox and facebook. I know I should trust him and I do its just I dont know if this is normal. He doesn't flirt with them really b...

Going on a holiday in 2 days but I suffer panic attacks. Can anyone give me advice on how to lessen any rise in panic within me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - After being cheated on I can't eat or drink much I suffer with panic attacks and I know that has something to do with it. I can't think about sex or a relationship at all to my advantage I'm going on holiday in two days. I just hope ill be able to ...

Online dating: how can we forgive each other and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So here it goes: I ended up hurting this guy (by lying to him online about my identity, etc)....and in turn, I felt awful (just awful) and I wanted to make things right. However, what I did was virtual, it was just online. I finally confesse...

Should I worry that b/f contacted girls while we broke up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for almost a year. I an not proud but I recently did a search through his phone. I found that he had searched a few girls. I confronted him about this and he admitted they were coworkers he is attracted to. ...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

How do you people handle loved ones with OCD?? It's driving me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a live in relationship for the past 2 years. He is a kind,loving man but I have major issues with his OCD and its driving me nuts. 1)We are not allowed to have house parties because he doesn't want the place to get...

I cry every day. It's getting me down. What can I do to deal with my problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have quite a few things troubling me however i'm the sort of person who keeps things to myself, and bottles it up. I don't like telling people as i feel like they will think i am seeking attention, or they won't be interested. It's got to the ...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women in their life like colleagues etc, while masturbating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women who come into their life like collegues etc, while masterburating. I am not talking about movie stars or rock stars, just the normal women whom we see almost everyday...

After I asked him to used a condom he lost interest. He's drifting away from me. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work... ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt s...

LDR: how do I determine if I'm being played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have a question about a 'relationship' I'm in. I am sort of seeing a guy, I say sort of for reasons I'll explain in this question. I met him while I was visiting a friend abroad. I ended up having what I thought to be a one night stand, he ...

I'm 19 and I don't understand why I can't find someone to to be my partner. Can you give me some tips on how to find the ONE?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - hi i am a 19 old guy who has a lot of love to give but hard to find someone. looking back on my life i had many crushes but they all had someone. i have tried everything from putting myself out there to lowering my standards and i don't like tha...

Why can't my ex leave the past behind? I did, why can't he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years after 04 we split for good I was dating him since 1983. Common-Law marriage I would say I finally built up enough courage to finally leave him. i made it out with his two children. N...

Really confused right now. I could really use some advice on dating, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about three weeks now. We initially met online and have been chatting and SMS-ing since about June. However due to illness and busy work schedules, we weren't able to meet up until earlier this month. She was the on...

We've already broken up twice. So is there any hope we can have a future together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My ex and I had been together 6 months and things seemed to be going just fine. But once school started he began to pull away. After 8 days he told me that i was beginning to annoy him and that wed have to break up if it didn't stop. I started...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

Is my ex putting me on the back-burner in case her new Bf does not work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - My ex and I had a good 4yr relationship and was going to marry in the future but broke up because she said I didn't give her enough attention which really wasn't true. She found someone else a few months after the break but we're still friends and ...

She is 'too busy for me' so I'm going to break up with her. Is there a RIGHT way to break-up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I have recently decided to break up with my girlfriend. We have been going out for about 1 year and a few months. I am breaking up with her because she is too busy for me or just doesn't feel the same about me anymore. I don't want to hurt her or d...

I'm falling for this guy, but I'm confused as I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - so i am pretty young, 18. i have a child he is 1 1/2 years old. my sons dad has been out of the picture for 1 year. i got a job at a local store and i met this guy we'll call him X. he is 26 has 2 children and works at the same store. we have ...

Why does someone dump you and then come back acting like he wants my attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for six months. We were really close--I thought. He told me he loved me AND cared about me-- AND showed it as well. Two months ago he told me I was beautiful, intelligent, AND perfect for him but something was "missing" AND ...

B/f accuses me of cheating on him but I didnt do anything wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We live together and have never been apart more than a day. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and doesn't trust me at all. (He is 40 and I'm 27 by the way) Every single girl he has ever ...