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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How to appologise to best friend and his girl friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - my ex husband and i were in a relationship for 11 years before we split but we grew up together and have been through a lot together. i was extremely attached to him and had no one else in my life. he is truly a great guy and he did a lot for me and ...

My partner is in contact with his ex but lies about it. Am I right to be concerned or am I making it more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hi, Bit of back ground. Me and my bf started a long distance relationship we met through a long time mutual friend. I was happy being single and he was in limbo with his fiancée. However he was just waiting for the appropriate time to end it. D...

I have self esteem issues over this. How do I learn to cope with my fiance staring at women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - We attended a job luncheon together and the field is dominated by women. Of course there was a blonde woman sitting not too far from us in a beautiful gray suit dress with her legs crossed and her chair was angled out from the table to hear the...

I can't stop thinking about him. Is this normal or am I being too obsessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. So, I deleted my friend's number off of my phome. He is a boy that I like A lot. I deleted his number off of my phone because...I like him so much, I (well I used to) text him everyday, and he'd never push me away or say I'm being ann...

Is it Good if she refers to me as her "younger brother" ? Does that mean that I'm not likely to be more to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - Hello there everyone :D it has been 2 years since i posted here, and i must say i got some realy good advice back then. so im in need of help once more it seems.... ok so long story short, 4 year ago i met a girl, had a crush, we were besti...

Married six weeks and now he has left me to live in another country? What can I do? No warning. No idea why.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I've just got married, and been married for 6 weeks now. We haven't even had our honeymoon yet, it's been busy with work etc. Our wedding was lovely - cost about $25,000 - at HIS request, not mine, so I can't really be called a bridezilla for t...

Seems he might like to still see me for sex. But how should I handle his offer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I met a man on an on-line dating site. He kept asking me out finally I met him at a coffee shop well we hit it off I don't recall all that he was saying I just knew I enjoyed his company for hours of sitting and talking. It was strange how ...

Why is he now shrinking from holding my hand in public? Is this a sign that he's less interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years and September 20th is our third year anniversary. We've haven't had sex yet because I'm still a virgin but that hasn't harmed our relationship one bit. The only thing that's been botherin...

The Ex factor. How do I stop becoming obsessed with my partner's ex girlfriends and ex-wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I am doing my usual self-destructive stuff that is driving my new boyfriend away. Right now I feel sick to the stomach that I am at this again. Nearly every relationship I have become obsessed with their ex girlfriend/wife. Currently I am ...

How can I get over this other man completely, and feel united with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - A lot of things happened since I was here last. I tried to be away from the man i used to date in the past years and i met a new guy with whom i get married. Although i feel happy, i think a lot of time about my ex boyfriend. He calls me sometimes...

Seems she likes me. I like her too, but I don't want a Gf, not yet. Plus I suck at talking to girls. Any tips on what to do please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - Okay, so the girl I like has heard that I like her from someone else, though I have pretty much confirmed it since, and everyone is telling me to ask her out, however, though I do like her, I do not want a girlfriend - yet. She doesn't talk to ...

So why does he act inconsistently if he likes me? He says he likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - He likes me, it's pretty obvious. He asked me for my number, invited me out for coffee and generally keeps texting me and flirts when he sees me. And his friends keep nudging him when I am around. Then he invited me out for a party last weekend but ...

I'm pregnant, I look after his son. But he's gone cold on me. And he's talking to his ex. Can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. I been dating my boyfriend for nine months now. At first he was the best. Now he acts different towards me and my family. He seems so cold like he doesn't care about nothing. He says he is hard on me to make me stronger, but its on...

Does 'taking a break' mean she's broken up with me? Devastated. She is the girl for me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I'm in a crisis state with my girlfriend (hopefully not soon-to-be-ex) our relationship was largely great. we had our issues, but whenever we fought we always worked through them in the end and would kiss and make up. last week we got into a h...

My wife actively discourages me forming any friendships of my own. How do I find the courage to stand up to her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - My wife won't let me have any friends of my own. We've been married for about two years now, and I've always accepted that. I messed up and cheated on her early in our relationship, but she decided to keep me around, and we got married and moved on. ...

Is he just being nice? Or does he have a crush on me? he talks about sex a bit. My friend says he tricked me into a date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - This guy at school is being really nice to me, and I've started feeling things for him. He just naturally makes me brighter and I can't stop smiling around him. But, I'm not sure if he's just being nice or he's being flirty. A week ago, he wen...

We're hopelessly incompatible. So how do I prepare myself for the break-up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I deeply and truly love this guy and we've been in a committed relationship for the past two years. However, I have realised (he realises it too, but won't admit it) that we're hopelessly incompatible. We make each other miserable but we still st...

I's been a month now and I want her back. How can I put things right with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I want to know if any of you consider I’m worth another chance. I was with my ex for 4 and half years we have done a lot of travel together and been thru a lot and the best thing was the trust well I was the most trusting guy u could get no matte...

Should ask him outright if he regrets what happened between us? He's a work colleague.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hey cupids! Ill just jump into it, I have been good friends with my colleague *rob at work since he started 2 years ago. We have always been quite close, always having a laugh and can talk about things we can't with many other people. In the la...

Why is it that I seem to be the only one wanting this to work??. What should I do? My guy friend is disinterested

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - So... Today... Has been a pretty bad day. To start off the day...i almost lost my guy friend. He decided it was ok to talk to his ex gf. I done told him I don't care who he talks to but he insists tht he didn't want me to have any guy friends....

What should I do? Because I'm Falling for my boyfriend's best friend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys , so I have a boyfriend well ... We have the most complicated relationship. We used to have a great relationship but now he seems to act differently, I've asked if he's okay or if I did something wrong to see if I can fix things but he a...

We met recently: Does he like playing me? Or is he just taking his time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hello! So my main issue here is that I have always had a hard time reading people and their intentions. I'm also a very gullible person, unfortunately. Which makes trying to read peoples feelings that much more difficult. Now with that being sa...