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writes:I met a girl online. We talked on the site for over a month before she gave me her number Then after that, we texted and talked on the phone for 2 weeks before we went on a date. Sense then, we've gone out everyweekend for 2 months, sometimes twice a week. We talk everyday and almost never go to bed without saying goodnight. Her parents came down to visit, we all we out to dinner. It's like we just clicked. She was perfect for me. Then two weeks ago, she goes home to IL to see her parents. When she gets back, she doesnt want to see me.(we still talk every day) She's had a lot going on. She just bought a house, after she gets moved in. ATT digs in the ground and busts her water line. She just got it fixed now we go out. We eat and everything seems normal. After dinner, I ask if she wants to go watch a movie and she tells me she wants to talk. She tells me I'm a great guy and I have every quality she wants in a man, she just doesnt feel a spark for me. She also stated that she thought, maybe she just didnt feel for me because of all the stress with the house. but now that shes been there a month, she still doesnt feel a connection. She said she realized it when I said I missed her. And she wasnt sure if she felt that way for me. Is it stress?? Should I have waited before I said my feelings?? Before she left, we carved pumpkins and stayed up late watching movies on the couch. She held my hand the whole time.
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reader, justaguy71  +, writes (28 October 2012):
If you really like her, just cool it off a bit, make her miss you a little for a change, you never know, she might change her mind.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (28 October 2012):
She is being honest with you so stop blaming yourself and thinking you did something wrong. End it here and move on, and who knows maybe things in the future will change. You gave it your best and so did she so no regrets.
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reader, Aunty Susie +, writes (28 October 2012):
 I think that she is being honest with you about her true feelings. It is unfortunate, but then life is like that sometimes. She sounds like a very nice person, who didn't want to hurt your feelings. In time you will get over her.
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