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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

What are they getting out of this? It seems they want drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - One of my housemates is going out with a guy and their relationship is rocky to say the least. The guy is a douche bag but he makes it his business to try and rise me when he comes over but he never succeeds. we get a great laugh out of the witt...

Why has my sex drive suddenly dropped?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 years, a few months back we broke up because he ended up kissing another girl, we just stopped having any type of contact with each other. After a month of that we gradually got back into contact and ...

He made a big fuss pretending to not know this woman when she only said 'hi' to him, is he hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I'm not sure if my husband is hiding something from me. The other night we went to dinner and after went window shopping. A female said hi to him. I immediately said who was that. His first response was I dont know. So I said to him well think ...

My past has affected me and subsequently my troubled relationships led to me turning to porn. Can I have a normal sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I am porn-damaged and I need help. Modnote: this paragraph was reduced to a precis, due to the graphic images therein: The background is that I have had a very troubled life where things have happened that were NOT my fault and for which I was ...

Not happy about anything. And my family are pressuring a marriage. What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I love this guy and i really can't think of being happy without him but the chances are very less that we will be together forever as his family doesnt want this i doubt if even he does like me or is he just afraid ? i am not sure. If i even speak...

What are my chances with this girl from another country in an LDR and despite her family and her health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I am 43 and live in ,Greece I met A from another country online on Facebook in February 2012. We had common musical tastes and met in a group dedicated to such music. After a few initial messages on FaceBook, we became closer and closer. At so...

I'm feeling unwanted. Can I try again to rekinde our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - My girl rarely sleeps in the bed with me. she falls sleep on the couch damn near everynite. i work a lot so when i come home at nite i want to cuddle. she says im complaining too much , but i'm not im human who like affection. but when thgs ar...

Marriage in trouble. But could we get back together? best advice???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - Well, my world came tumbling down to earth about 5 weeks ago. I have been married for 8 years, known each other for another 7 or so years earlier, have two boys 8 and 11 with her. We had one break up before we had kids, she met someone at her w...

Even though he is planning to marry me, why do I feel like I am second best? Does the mother of his child have more claim to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a guy we are so good together. he has a child froma past relationship, he loves her so much, that i fear he might have to choose her/(and of courss the mother) over me.,when it gets to the point, wh...

Is ALMOST cheating, cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm in a very confusing dilemma with my boyfriend at the moment, and I'm afraid to talk to my friends about it because if we do stay together, I don't want them to think badly of him. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relations...

Family Guest arriving soon. Is it okay to put a rubber(?) mattress cover on the double bed where they will be sleeping alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - Okay, this is an odd question and probably doesn't belong here, but... We have some guests coming soon. One of them is a bit mentally challenged. The last time we saw this person, they smelled terribly of urine. Is it okay to put a rubber(?) ...

The sex is so unsatisfying for me. What are my options? My husband has ED and has been the doctor, but then forgets his medication for ED

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I don't know where to go. My husband and I were raised in very conservative religious homes and had no sexual experience prior to marriage (at 18 and 19). He has an ongoing problem with premature ejaculation (I think his record is 10 seconds)...

Do I dump him over the attention he's giving his 'back-up women?" I no longer trust him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is around 10 years older than me and is in a rush to get married because he feels that he is of that age and his family and culture expects that of him. We're of the same culture and I definitely understand that about him but I just c...

I am so worried about losing him. Yet I feel like we've fallen out of love. Could the real problem be that we're both depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I need to get this off of my chest... I am not sure if I love my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for a little more than nine months. We started our relationship on very strange terms, and were strictly friends who smoked weed together (o...

Realistically, what do 20 something year old girls think of men with long hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I've always been really self-conscious about my appearance, namely because I have pale-skin, red hair, freckles, and glasses, while the rest of my family all has dark Native-American hair, eyes, and skin. As such, I was always picked-on for being ...

She is half my age and up the duff!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - OMG!! my husband of 21 years wants a divorce after getting his co-worker who is half his age pregnant. he says he loves me but he is in love with her and wants to marry her, and is excited about the baby. we had no children together but i had 2 from ...

I dumped my married lover when I found out about another woman, I think his wife needs to be told!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I am married and had an affair with a married man. We're both in our early 50's. For four years. I've been needing to end it. He ended it, after some bad behaviour on my part, and well, I just got really angry. It wasn't some soulmate thing, it ...

My ex-girlfriend has lots of issues that she needs to talk out. But is that my responsibility still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of about 10 months a little while ago. I still miss her, and I really do wish things could have worked out, but the fact of the matter is that I don't think they would have. I'm an honors biochemistry major, I wake up ...

His sleazy behaviour around young girls disgusts me. Do I tell him how I feel? Or just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is into every other female but me, or so it seems. He lost a good summer job, teaching science to high school students, at a local university because he was giving high school students rides in his van without permission and some...

Girls say I'm nice. So why am I still single? Am I missing something they are trying to tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I have been talking to all the girls in my class who all happen to have significant others and they all call me the nicest guy they have ever met Some of the girls say that any girl would be lucky to have me and that I'm too good for just any girl...

In love with the wrong guy... Is there a way out of this for me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 1/2 years with the the relationship being intimate for just under 2 years. We met and there was immediate attraction. We stated our goals for long term relationship at the beginning and as things progressed he changed ...

I'm a lost girl and I'm losing myself in this sea of men I've been seeing. What advice can you give me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Facts and dates these thing occurred: June 9th- ectopic pregnancy August 17th- He went back to his hometown September 1st- October 12th guy number 2 who went back to his baby mamma October 13th- I slept with g...

I got too sexual with my flirty texts, now she doesn't want to know me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - hi, I really like this beautiful young lady that goes to my church and she has told me that she likes me also .The problem that I have is we have been talking to each other and texting other for the 4 or 5 months and everything has ...

Am I doing too much for my Gf? I sometimes feel used by her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I sometimes feel like i'm being used by my Gf. Like i always give her money and i buy stuff for her. She always ask me do i want anything and i just say no. I don't really want her to buy me anything. I'd rather be the type of gf, thats always ...

Does he like me? He hugs me for the smallest of things, plays footsies with me and always teases me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - This guy baked me a box of brownies on my birthday. He always compliments me (albeit in a weird way sometimes, like "why are you so funny?"). He hugs me for the smallest of things, plays footsies with me and always teases me. He even yelled a...

My girlfriend is upset our porn movie has been posted online.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend is a sweet, amazing girl but very shy 21 year old. She was in a few very bad relationships before we met and has some trust issues from being hurt in the past. I had always wanted to make a sex tape but never did because ...

I'm embarassed about how I look - should I cancel my date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I met a guy online a week ago, and we hit it off really well, and have now started speaking via mobile phone, he seems nice and there seems to be a positive connection. We've scheduled to meet each other for the first time next Sa...