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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

No one knows I like guys. So how can I get rid of this crush I have on a guy at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - So, recently I have started to like this guy at my school, but I'm a guy as well, I'm always thinking and looking at him during school but I know he wouldn't want to be with me. I just really want to know how I can probably forget about him, or ...

If I become a Chartered Accountant will it turn off girls? Will they see me as boring?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I'm already a bit shy and not good with girls. I'm trying to figure out what do to as a career, and I'm considering becoming a Chartered Accountant as I'm good at it and it does pay exceedingly well. But I'm worried if it will turn girls off. ...

Being on top does not work for me. Am I doing it wrong? Why do I not like it that well, but he loves it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need some help. I have the most amazing lover ever in bed. I consider myself to be one of the luckiest ladies ever. This man's not only great to me in bed but emotionally as well. He is my soulmate for sure. However, I have a ...

Best places and best strategies to meet women? What do you suggest? And are my co-workers right about random approaches to meet women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all. I am 23 years old and i just moved into a new city where i barely know anyone. So far it has been 4 months and I feel like my love life has been a bit slower. To be honest I know I am very shy when it comes to approaching women, b...

Should I trust my LDR girlfriend? She grinds with other guys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I recently started dating a girl at the school I just graduated from. It's a semi-long distance relationship; thus far we've been able to see each other at least once a month, if not more. However, there are times when we are apart. I trust her ...

I tell him what I want when we make love, but he always reverts to his basic style. How do I convince him to be more adventurous in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is my best friend and I love him dearly. That's why it seems soo ridiculous that I fantasize about breaking up with him so I can have sex with other men. When we first got together, things were hot and heavy. The sex was pretty basic...

40 emails between us, and then she stopped responding? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Sooo basically I'm having a crush on a girl who I don't know THAT well. We attend the same college, although she's quite a bit older than me (9 years), but aren't taking any classes together. We met at the beginning of the year at this opening ...

Is it injurious to my health that daily I only talk to my Bf? I'm tired, sad, and ready to walk out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and I moved to the city 6 months ago when he got a new job. I still love him dearly but the problem is I'm lonely have no friends and feel severely depressed. I work from home and have little energy to...

She blows me off when I try to talk to her. Should I keep trying to talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 3 years ago (10th grade) i met a girl that became my best friend, we would do everything together and supported each other with everything. When my birthday came this year in march i planned for me and her and my good friends ...

A friend of my Bf keeps offering him smokes. My Bf knows I don't like this. Do I have the right to ask him to refuse to smoke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months very occasionally smokes ~ I've only seen him do it a couple of times, and every time this has been when he has been with his one friend who I'll call 'C'. I'm not completely sure what it is that C smokes, but I think it's ...

Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

IPhone addict? Sending a picture of himself in some of my clothing? What can I do about his addiction to his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband has recently become obsessed, and I mean obsessed with his iPhone. The iPhone isn't new, he's had it since January, so it's not like a kid with a new toy at Christmas, but he spends hours on social networking sites with it, and spends m...

Why does my husband keep going on dating sites looking for women? he knows I know. So why does he keep on hurting me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - For at least the past 6 months I was coming across my boyfriend going on dating sites to chat to different women. Of course, he has always denied it and called me weird and neurotic. He knows that I know, so why won`t he tell me if there is somet...

What's his game? Is he trying to use me as a booty call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. He had dinner and we went his place but I refused to have sex. Two days later he invited me to come to his brother's birthday party. I went there but we didn't had sex. then he invited me to come over his place to...

I've just broken up with my Gf. Can I have some advice please? Her mixed messages and all the pain I've been going through is a heavy load.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me on Saturday saying we need some space. She says I need to become more independent and self sufficient. I can see where she is coming from but I can't tell if it is tough love or forever....

Am I allowed to play the field in this situation? I don't want to break hearts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - ok so I haven't had a full-on relationship for about almost 3 years now, all I have been doing is going out weekends having one night stands and having fwb. Now however I have 3 girls that I can really have a proper strong relationship with. A...

Ok I'm lost, does she like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - So there is this woman at work who i like. We only see each other for short amounts of time since we are both very busy (usually on opposite sides of the building) I'm not sure if she likes girls or shes straight and playing around with me. ...

What hope is there for us? We can't be together right now and we fight weekly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - We saw each other for 5 months, then separated because of distance, continued LDR on and off for 3 months and then finally ended it because she wasn't ready and have never since tried to be friends. I've tried numerous times to just leave her b...

He lies to me. Do I keep putting up with this? I do love him, just tired of being treated like a doormat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I found out my partner had cheated gave him a second chance everything seemed to go well but then I found out he wasn't telling the whole truth of his affair I told him the lies are now worse than the affair, he said he knows that but he didn't want ...

Was inviting him to a movie, as just a friend, the wrong thing to do? I have a crush on him. He does have a GF as well.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I really like this guy at my school, but he is a going out with a friend, of mine right. I reassured him that I don't mind being just friends and that I wouldn't dare interfere with his relationship because I care about him and I care a...

Am I too controlling for wanting to help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all, I was curious to get a second opinion on a situation. Now my girlfriend is notoriously for procrastinating, motivating herself, forgetting to do important things, and is very lazy, to the point where if I ask about something she was supp...