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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to ...

He was once married and never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neith...

Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...

Is it ok for 2 men to share a bed??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it normal for 2 grown men (early 40's) to sleep in the same bed? What if they were watching a movie and due to the late hour had simply fallen asleep? Is it normal for grown men to lay on the same bed watching a movie together in the first pl...

Is sex with a 'player' a good idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey I'll get right to the problem and i need answers asap! please :( The guy i had a crush on started talking to me about a month ago. He said he thought i was cute and a type of girl he would date. So he asked me to come over to his plac...

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it...

Paranoia or red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm 25, with my bf 3 years. When we got together he said one of his best mates is a girl who he was with in the past and who he was crazy about. He said thats old history now. Thing is though, over the last 3 years he has done several things that ...

Girlfriend doesn't want me to go on holiday...but I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hi, Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes... Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave he...

Should I feel guilty because I sit at a community table talking politics and local government with these old men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have never done anything in all of my years of marriage that is unfaithful I've never even thought of it to be honest I've always loved my husband even though he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to me for the entire marriage. In our home ...

Hurt he didn't call, am I overreacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm the kind of person that has always put in a lot of effort into my relationships. I used to go overboard with it but now I've definitely calmed down. I've really been trying to keep busy and not focus on my relationship because I know I have a ...

Torn between my best friend and my current boyfriend, how do I manage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I am really confused !! i don't know what should i do with my life !! 1st my boyfriend , 2nd my best friend. Help Me Please !! My boyfriend had changed his treatment with me , because like he say i don't show him that i love him ,he says when i s...

My older friend has put my self-esteem at rock bottom. How do I cope with this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Many thanks to couple of people who responded to my problem of boyfriend looking at other women. I was talking to a male friend who is 64 years old to see whether I am being silly or what. He turned around and said "well, you are very attract...

Unhappy with my husband's online activity....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Me an my husband have been rowing a little (well up and down) he is always in Twitter I don't know his name or nothing. I went on history on pc an seen he's been on dirty dating sites but whats hurt the most is that it asked him to write what he ...

A young, troubled guy, already.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

Porn and hurtful google searches found on my boyfriend's computer......I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, so I need some advice, I recently found some things on my boyfriends computer that really confused/upset me. Some background: ~We met at University and have been dating for 21/2 years now. ~I am his 1st girlfriend although I ha...

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working ...

I've known him for 27 years and don't know if I'm on the right path...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have know my boyfriend for 27 years and been with him since 1999 (11 years) We now have an 8 year that he adores. He is also very supportive to my older teenagers. I have been having doubts about the relationship as I do not feel he is total...

His photography is creeping me out

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently took some pictures of my teenage daughter and her friends in a running race. However for the last couple of weeks I have noticed that most evenings he continually goes back to these pictures for hours retouching them in photo...

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. ...

He wants space. Will I be able to heal if I have to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - How do I get over him? I was with my fiance for almost three years. In that time we had a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to my mental illness. I cheated on him whilst I was ill and then tried to kill myself when we broke up, and then again a few...

My boyfriend accuses of cheating and calls me a slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but I dont feel loved. we have been bestfriends for many years prior to our relationship and I think he cant cope with my past relationship. I was with this guy for many years back, and I gave talked to ...

He says he is coming, How do I handle his response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid! Sorry if this is extremely long . I met this guy online some time ago and whenever we were chatting it wasn't for long, just regular small talk. I wasn't even paying attention, but generally I considered him to be a nice ...

He told her I was his friend, not his girlfriend. I don't know what to think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have gone back together after four months of separation. He broke up with me because he found it so hard to manage his life after being so financially struggled and he just had so much arguments at that time. He also had another ...

Is it wrong not to trust him because of one mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My bf and i were together for 3 months and then he dumped me, he told me it was because he was afraid I was gonna dump him. We were broken up for 5 days and in those 5 days he had another girlfriend so now I don't trust him as much ...

Confused by my girlfriend's behaviour.....what should I do?

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29 March 2011 (M) - she was my best friend in school...met her after 6 yrs..now we are in a relation for about 5 months. we like each other a lot. she clearly loves me, but doesnt say so [very rarely she tells]. she justifies if she says "i love you" she has to keep ...

The constant emotional abuse from my parents has led me to project their negativity against my B/f into my relationship, which I'v now almost ruined. How can I repair the damage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now and over that time, I've become increasingly frustrated with the fact we haven't moved in together in all these years. I'm in my mid-late twenties and still live at home with my parents....

My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (?) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have bee...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Can any ladies help me get over this problem. My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous. I feel that he prefers them to me. I watched him looking at women for example we were sitting at red light traffic, a ...

I don't want to overeact and ruin this relationship, but I am having a hard time trusting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. The last time I slept with my boyfriend he gave me a yeast infection and now I am finding my self getting tested for all std's. I am finding so many inscurities rising to the surface as I think he also has given ...

My wife enjoys telling me all about her past sexual encounters...is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - my wife tole me about all her sexual encounters after her devorce from her st husband and seemed to enjoy telling me even though I hadn't asked. Is this normal.? xxx...

Is it okay for my boyfriend to still see his hairdresser if he has slept with her in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Here is my dilemma. My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and I think he is the person I am going to be marrying, but recently I just can't get past this issue. To make a long story short, my boyfriend had too much to drin...

Boyfriend invited girl he used to crush on to his holiday house and now the trip is ruined for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has decided that in the Summer, he wants to take me and some friends to his holiday house. This sounded great to me and I couldn't wait for it. He has now invited a girl he used to fancy (and who, in all honesty, I feel I was 2nd best ...

B/f confessed that he is married with a child on the way in 3 months! I didn't see this and am devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Until yesterday I was seeing a guy for about 6 months - we just dated and spent the odd weekend together. Two days ago he came over to my house and sat down and said he had something to tell me. He was married, already had a two year old and as I ...

Has anyone ever kept the truth from their partner and it did not destroy the relationship??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Is a relationship where you have lied, and cannot get yourself to tell the truth, a relationship worth staying in? Will the guilt of lying and of having betrayed someone you love get to be too much? Cannot confess a truth, but don't know if the ...

Why didn't I see this coming? I was dumped over text message!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - met a guy in January. He approached me. We hit it off. In the beginning of our courtship, I was a little cautious simply because I didn't want my feeling hurt by this guy. I expressed my concern to him and we had at least 3 good conversations ...

He wants to talk but I'm scared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - In my life I have alot of drama so I perfer my love life not to be affected. I met this guy on an online dating site and its nothing for me me to lie to a guy because the relationship is not going to last long usually, but this guy I met I feel in ...

Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other......

I'm not sure I should believe him when he tells me he loves me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My ex wants me back and i want him back so he has been kissing me and calling me his gf again. I know how i feel about him, i know how he SAYS how he feels about me, but some times i don't believe it. My "BF" says he wants to marry me one day and w...

I admitted I was jealous and things haven't been the same since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i de...

Was I being childish and selfish over this situation? And how to deal with our opposing families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Just wondering what your thoughts are on this – I’m in a 2 year relationship with a 32 year old Muslim man from a country outside mine. I am 26 and a white Muslim convert (I don’t wear hijab but I do believe in the principl...

No reply. No response? Is this his way of just saying goodbye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I was seeing this guy for one month and things were great. He honestly seemed too good to be true. He was so nice to me and I was very guarded because i have been hurt in the past. He promised not to hurt me and is about 4 years older than me. Ever...

Is he looking for someone else online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Ive being with my bf for 5 months. This is a taking it slowly relationship. I have posted this question before but over the last few days things have got stranger. The thing is I just dont get what he is doing on a 'social network site'. This is ...

Help me to trust her.......

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28 March 2011 (M) - Please help me I need suggestion on this issue, I may appear you a fool but this is what I am, I have g/f for long time and after long time I came to know that she was being abused sexually in her 8-10 years of age by multiple elderly persons and ...

Is a relationship hopeless if there's no trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Is a relationship hopeless if there's no trust even though its the trust seems to improve ? ...

My soon to be ex-husband has hurt me very badly, but says he doesn't want me to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I need advice! Myself and my ex separated now x2 yrs ago, but i still have some feelings for him. I have let him stay in my house until he finds somewhere else to live (raise a deposit). He does support us financially but he constantly reminds me ...

I haven't heard from him since turning him down for sex, but he said he always loved me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Have known this guy for 2yrs now. He loved me but I turned him down many times because I had a boyfriend. Having broken up with my boyfriend, I sent him a msg on fb, saying 'hi', he replied saying that he loved me, he never stopped loving me. Then ...

Why do guys cheat? I had good reason to break up with my BF, but I still feel awful!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs and I just broke up (I broke with him). I had my reasons...1) signs he was cheating 2) always hiding his phone 3)the PAST 4) my gut feeling. Anyways, I spent the night with him last night and for once he left his phone ou...

I was deceived. If she's pregnant, what are my options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - Hello, thanks for readin, basically i met up with a girl a few weeks back who failed to tell me before she got back to mine after a party that she was allergic to latex, but told me she was infertile, so being a bit drunk and stupid i slept with ...