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writes:Dear Cupid,My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i decided to be stupid and not tell her that i was jealous from this person when he hung around with her, but i did a while later and when i did, she got upset and she said that she thought we had a thing going on but she was wrong, and that's when the hard and scary part of our roller coaster ride started.We started fighting a lot and arguing a lot and she doesn't believe a single thing i say. She keeps on thinking that i don't care about her and that i'm just lying and that i'm only with her because of what we do when we're alone.I really care about her, and i love being with her. i would do anything to stay with her. She used to get annoyed when i talked to other girls so i stopped, and did everything i could but she keeps on saying that i don't wanna change. Can anyone give me advice on what to do to make things better?thank you :)
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Hiyaaaaa,Do you honestly like his girl more than a friend?If you do there is no harm in that and if you don't then that is also ok!I think that you should make more friends because it's obviously making you jealous and I think you should maybe stop relying on one person and make new friends because that way you can be happy with different people and avoid arguments. (Don't purposely go and talk to girls to make her jealous THAT IS THE WORSE THING TO DO!)But obviously she wants to make new friends and talk to new people and I think you should do the same to show that you are capable of making friends and not relying on her. You never know you might be surprised about talking to new people, despite it being scary it's a good thing because you can get good advice comfort and not the same old arguments over and over again. Sometimes it's best if you just stay friends with her and make new ones because you have a set of perfect friends!Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of loveIma FreAk!x
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reader, durdak +, writes (28 March 2011):
 My boyfriend never showed me that he was jealous. And this always made me think that he didn't care for me and he was just with me to use me. After feeling this way, I started not believing him at all. I never believed him when he said he loves me or he cares for me..Deep inside, I had this emptiness..That;s the reason why we started having fights for little things even. A girl needs to feel that her boyfriend cares for her, and protects her. If you don't show her these things especially after he hangs around with some other guy,I think you should be worried.What I would suggest you is that be patient..As I understand you really care for her. Just let some time pass. But never hide your jealousy anymore..(as long as it's not extreme) This will make her start trusting you againGood luck, hope things get better :) I believe the reason why u started having fight
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (28 March 2011):
its because shes cheating on you.. with that guy your jealous with
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