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Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?

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Question - (28 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other...

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A female reader, Ima FreAk!  United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2011):

Ima FreAk!  agony auntHiyaaaa,

If you cheat on someone it means that helll yeahhh you guys do have trust issues and it's because you might not feel satisfied but it can be resolved!

I think that if you really love someone you should be able to trust them and know that deep down in your heart it's about you. Even if your boyfriend may have cheated you want to be completely honest with him and that the first step.

Maybe you haven't shown him that you love him that much and even if you have trust issue, it's ok to get hurt because it can make you a better person. So open your heart and be honest with him in whatever situation.

Both of you guys have cheated in previous relationships and he might be paranoid because he probably doesn't wanna be hurt but if he really love you, he will know that you aren't cheating!

Hope my advice helps!

Good luck!

Lots of love,

Ima FreAk!

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A male reader, Tearole United States +, writes (28 March 2011):

It is a sign of him cheating on u BUT... it could be other things also. the best way to find out if he is cheating on u to ask your self a few things.

1- dose he explain odd events or free time in Great detail?if so he is more then likely hiding something or lying.

2- does he get paranoid when he leaves your home or when he gets home? if so he may be covering up something or again hiding it.

If u still are not sure come right on out and ask him. when u do watch his response. if he looks away, gets paranoid, and or answers b4 he even has a moment to understand the question (like he already had a pretty thought out answer) he is more then likely lying or hiding something. may not be be cheating all the way but just getting to 2nd base or something like that.

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