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My wife enjoys telling me all about her past sexual encounters...is this normal?

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Question - (28 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A male age , anonymous writes:

my wife tole me about all her sexual encounters after her devorce from her st husband and seemed to enjoy telling me even though I hadn't asked. Is this normal.? xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

In some relationships I suppose it might be- personally, I don't want to know the details of my wifes past. I know she's had sex, likely with a lot more people than me (I'm only up to 4 women... 0 men! BTW!). Personally, I'm happy that most of them taught her something that now brings me a great deal of pleasure, but I don't want to hear how she learned to perform oral like a pro, or any other acts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

I recently did that to my husband and as horrible as it may sound did have a secret motive, two actually. The first was said in frustration to show that I was desired by another man. The other was to hint at things that I liked previously in hopes I would be surprised by them. I would ask her (if she mentioned something different than what you normally do) if she wants to try it.

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A male reader, garcypher United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2011):

It might turn her on telling you. My wife was the same. If it makes you jealous tell her to shut up; if it turns you on ask her for more.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

Perhaps she gets some bullshit sexual thrill off recounting the stories and hopes you will as well.

I'd sit her down and tell her that, whilst you appreciate her honesty, it kind of makes you feel like you come of as second best to these past encounters she thinks so highly of.

You wouldn't even be here talking about it if it wasn't making you feel inadequate in the bedroom.

So talk to her. It's the two of you this really concerns. Bitching to a bunch of letters on a screen isn't gonna solve your problems.

Man up.

Flynn 24

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