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writes:Before I begin I would just like to apologize for how long this is.I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story.I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should just tell him.(i think he already knew anyways, cuz i would draw on the back of his neck and put my headband on top of his head.)I told her at lunch, around him and one of my ex's: "I'm not telling the person I like that I like him. I never have and I never will."When I went go take care of my tray my ex followed me and asked who it was i liked. I asked him if he could keep it a secret so i told him.When I got to school the next, T wasn't at school the next day so i was sad. My ex told me T asked who it was I liked over facebook cuz he thought I liked him. So my ex told him. I was so furious at him.That weekend I got on facebook and T asked me out. I was so happy.T and I dated from January to March. three months. We were as happy as could be together. then i had a lot of drama going on in my life so i was telling my friend C i was thinking about dumping him till i got my life straitened out. She told me she want gonna tell him that I could be the one to tell him. well later that night i told her i decided not to dump him, but she told me she had already told him. I was so upset with her.T gave a note at school the next day and told me if i really wanted to break up with him to just go for it.I was so sad. I texted him telling him I would be a major idiot if i dumped him. and then the next weekend I found out he had another girlfriend and that was his way of dumping me.We ended up getting back together after five days. But what i have found out is he still has feelings for her and one of his other ex's. He says he still loves me and sgtill wants to marry me one day though. he even wants to buy me a promise ring.so at this point of time i am just lost and confused on what to do can you help me?
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reader, bridge89  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 Wow, you have a lot going on in your life and you are soo young :) I be honest hun maybe im sounding old here (im only 22) but you have the rest of your life to worry about boys etc, enjoy being young and just have fun with your mates. Boys are always confusing but it does get easier when you get older. If this boy does really like you he will be with you, and to me is sounds like he doesn't know what he wants himself, and he is loving the attention from all these girls. You sound like a lovely girl and you dont need to be treated that way by a young boy and your friend. If she really was your friend and you asked her not to tell the boy what you had told her she would have kept it to herself. I really hope I have helped in some way, but really your've got your whole life ahead of you. Get stuck into a new hobby maybe? something like that would help you take your mind off things and would be a great way to meet new people. Have fun :)
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