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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate himself from talking to me, and also seeing me. I actually think about things he have said to me a couple weeks ago (I will never cheat on you). I feel as if I will soon explode from all of the worries and insecurity. All of this pressure is too much for me! Could anyone help me figure out how to fix this situation, if he is so difficult to talk to? Reply to this Question
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reader, its ok  +, writes (27 January 2011):
for goodness sake tell him-today.Trust me he will overlook you being cranky when he finds out why and if he's 31,then you need his support,it's easier for him than it is for you at 18-in a way you are lucky that you have someone older
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female
reader, its ok +, writes (27 January 2011):
For goodness sake tell him today. Trust me, he will overlook you being cranky when he finds out why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): My advice to you is, give him time to respond. If he knows you are pregnant, he is probably under a lot of pressure at the moment and is thinking things over.
See how this goes and if he doesn't respond, he may not feel ready for such a commitment.
In the mean time, you need to ask yourself some things;
1. Are you ready to have a child at 18?
2. Will you have a supportive partner / boyfriend if you choose to have the baby?
3. Will you have family support if you have to raise the child alone?
Eventually you will need to talk it over with him. But give him some time first. Hope this helps.
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