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writes:My girlfriend and I have recently broken up, about 2 weeks ago, and it's been pretty hard. And she has a new boyfriend that she met while she was involved with me. I know that we both loved each other towards the end of the relationship but the main reason she states that we broke up was because of our different positions in life. With her being older and me being younger. She didn't think that our relationship had a future. However, I don't really believe her. If she didn't think the relationship had a future why didn't she break things off sooner instead of dating for over a year. She only broke things off with me after she met this other guy came into her life and I believe that's the real reason that things ended between us. My questions is that considered a rebound relationship and is there any chance at all of her getting back with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just can't believe that she would actually do this, makes me think what kind of person she actually was. I just don't know what to do in this situation, it's never happened to me before and it hurts so much knowing that she's out and about all happy with this new guy that she met while she was with me. Please! anyone I need help desperately on trying to get over this.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2010):
I don't think it is a rebound. If you'd dumped her, then she'd found that guy, I'd have said it was a rebound. As it is, I think she met this guy, then dumped you. In fact, you're at risk of rebounding here.
I'm also afraid she won't be coming back. She clearly had reservations about the relationship and age gap thing, and she thought the best way out was to end it with you.
If it helps, I'm not sure she was an overly great woman. Notice how she suddenly said all this when she met that other guy? So basically she was happy to use you as a safe option. I wouldn't take her back of she came crawling.
Move on from her and find a woman who is more secure in her own life.
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