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36-40,
*ibylla
writes:I recently stayed over at my new boyfriends house. The next day while shopping i discovered my bank card was missing. I had the bank close the card immediately. Later that day I discovered that the bank account was emptied. and also some cash was missing from my purse. the thief had to know my pin number to get the money.My boyfriend had seen me enter it once. more to it the money was taken just after I left his house and the bank said someone had checked my account earlier. coincidentally he had been out the same morning to get milk. I have reported to the police that my card was stolen and money is gone. and they can access the ATM cameras to see who it was. Now to my question. If it really was him what should I do? He is also my fitness trainer in a club I go to. So I dont even know if I can go training any more? He has a good job, so it doesnt make any sense. I hate to suspect him but somehow all the signs fit to him and I was with no one else at the time...
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reader, sibylla +, writes (27 November 2010):
sibylla is verified as being by the original poster of the question the missing money was about 220 bucks. in my little country it is quite a considerable amount. He was the only person around. I discovered the theft after leaving his place.
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reader, sibylla +, writes (27 November 2010):
sibylla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto bernard: yes this is the first time something like this has happened. and I am not seeing him until the police has got the picture of the video camera by the atm where the money was withdrawn. I just cant accuse him wivout proof...I just really wish it was all a big coincidence, although at the moment the signs really point to him.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 If it was him you have him charged. naturally this will mean the end of him as a boyfriend, but would that really be such a loss?
If it was him you let his employers know, if they are employing a thief they have a right to know.
If it was him, and he gets charged, and is found guilty, the only person at fault here is him.
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