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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:so here goes... i came to dr to get back surgery and i be staying at my uncle house with his family.The 3 day i was here i meet one on my cousin's friends,that night it was me, my two cousins and her,we was playing a game and for some weird reson i really wanted to kiss her,i always knew i like girlsme and her started to become really good friends.one day she told me she like girls,so we started talking and from talking we started dating but for some reson i feel very insecure about our relationship,for some reson i became very jealous i was never the jealous type but now i am. i love her very much she is my first girlfriend and she says she love me but i dont belive it,she never gave me a reson not to trust her but i just dont.her ex girlfriend is very pretty and make me even more insecure i became very cligy ,a whole new person that i was not before and i dont know what to do,am afraid she will cheat on me or find somebody pretty i need help i dont know what to think anymore
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 Have you ever heard an old saying that goes " paranioa will annoy her" well this is the perfect saying for you. The more you pester and push this girl with your jealousy the more likely you are to loose her, and then the only person to balme would be you and your insecurites. You need to find out what is making you feel this way, and the problem i would suggest is more to do with you than with this girl, if you really like her then dont push her away, if she didnt like you then she wouldnt be with you now would she? hope this helps
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