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writes:no body replied to my question so i have to post it again.plzzzzz reply.Im in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,so its not easy to spend so much time with my bf.when i told this to my bf,he said that he will come to attend my uncle's son wedding! but my uncle doesn't know him and he's not invited.he says he will come secretly and nobody will recognise him in such a crowd.i don't know what to say to my bf.if i will say no its risky he will feel bad.what to do? moreover i will be reaching on dec 2 and will checking in hotel around 9pm so it will be difficult to meet my bf on that day.but my bf said that he will stand near the gate just to have a glimpse of me! one good friend of mine also lives there.so i have to meet him too.when i told this to my bf he said why you told him? and when i told my bf that i will play badminton with everyone,he said honey it will be a time waste.we can utilise that time to sit somewhere alone and talk. whatever he is saying is it ok for a bf to say so?or is he really crazy to meet me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthere's something known as true love.
breakup is impossible.nah i won't talk to my bf in reception.my bf said he will just come to see me!
and we can text each other from a distance.
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 If your parents see you talking to your boyfriend at the wedding reception and ask who he is, what are you going to say?
Your relationship could work out, on the other hand, having to keep everything a secret plus the distance problem is likely to eventually cause you both to break up. Sorry, harsh but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy parents don't know anything about our relationahip.we are going to meet each other secretly.ya he will come to reception party secretively.no i can't share with my cousin as i can't tell anyone about this.and i love him a lot so breakup is a complete no .
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (25 November 2010):
You're not going to like me saying this, but you should probably end things with your boyfriend. Long distance relationships hardly ever work out.. look at all this hassle being caused because you rarely see each other, and when the opportunity arises, he wants you to see him but you have other committments.
You need to have time for your friends, family, and boyfriend. If you're finding it hard to have a relationship with a lot of other stuff going on, it's better you end your relationship. Like I said before, LDRs don't really work out because it takes a lot to overcome the distance.
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reader, Sissy 1992  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 I think it is sweet that he wants to see you so bad... Your best bet is to talk to your cousin about your boyfriend coming to the reception (Not the Wedding cause that is like for family if you know what i mean). If he says no then talk to your dad or mom about going to see him for a few hours before the wedding or the next day... An if none of those work out then just let your boyfriend know that things will be busy that visit and you will call him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): If he hasnt seen you in a while whats wrong with him wanting to meet up with you?
Assuming your mother or father know about your relationship why don't you just ask if he can come? Or alternatively ask if he can come to the reception or party after (if there is one)
It seems like he just wants to see you.
:)
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