A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half now, we fell on hard times where i was involved in an accident and people died but she stuck right there. i lost my drivers license and depended on her a lot. so i went to deer camp on a sat but the wed before everything began to be better. we were happy no fights.so i came home tue and a lil grumpy and that night she said she needed a break but not like that she said she needed time. i asked her what was wrong and she said she felt tired of being controlled but i wasnt trying to control i was trying to help her. she never said she wanted it to be over i think we had to grow up too fast because of the accident. she says she loves me im the only one but doesnt really want to hang out because shes afraid of being controlled and dont think she see i change so what should i do? shes been txtin me a lil not a lot short meassages sometimes mean im not for sure why she wants space we were so close seen each other just about every day so why does she want space its hard to wait for her?
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reader, j.c.d.l +, writes (25 November 2010):
If you leave her for a bit, dont contact her and respect her need for space shell probly come back to you.
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