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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I think at this point I do not care that much but still I would like to understand what happened. Why is he ignoring me ? I do not think it is something i did but cannot stop wonder.We had an amazing thing together going on for several months. He was crazy about me and I felt exactly the same. And then out of the blue everything felt apart. He just pulled away and I freaked out. We never lost contact and went out again. We talked and I explained how hurt I was when he disappeared.Then he texted me saying he wanted to see me again during xmas and I replied saying that i also want to spend time with him. He replied saying again that he wants to see me and explained how busy he is but he will come back with a solid plan. I didn't hear from him and four days later I sent a quick email wishing him luck with his work interviews and asking about the plans as I have some stuff going on too. It was a legit request as we do not live in the same city and flight tickets are expensive.He didn't reply so I got the hint. It was his idea and he reiterated that he wants to make plans with me. So why is he ignoring me now ?? He could come back and say that he was thinking about that and it does seem a good idea. It is easy to do but ... let me wait ? Even if he is no longer interested we were friends for years and we went out together during months so his behaviour seems so rude. And I feel like he does not care about me even as a person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Sounds as if he likes to have you there just in a case he wants to see you. He gives the door a push to see if it will open, yes it does, but no he's not going to go through all the same. That's what it looks like. Not treating you well at all. No doubt he will be in touch again. If you can, call a halt to being keen to meet up when he casually, out of blue, calls - no, you're busy thanks. Get your own back. he deserves it.
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