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writes:Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. then he tried to give me some lame excuse that when my mother gets home early enough to help take care of our 3 yr old that MAYBE we can have sex then. Really? That had never been a problem before. Not to mention my many useless attemps to have sex with him, he will just reject me. I honestly dont know what to do or even think! Is this normal or should i bring a PI into this? Reply to this Question
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reader, babylove88 +, writes (18 June 2016):
don't feel too bad you're not alone.my boyfriend is the same and I hate it. He makes me feel like I'm begging like as if he is the last man alive.but pregnancy does not last for ever and before you know it he will be the one begging you for it and it is your duty as a woman to make him Begg for it.let him chase you so he can know how it feels and don't give in so quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): he probably dosen't want the baby , or maybe he doesn't wanna have sex because he has somethinq . i think he needs to qrow up & answer you . if you wanna know why he doesn't wanna have sex with you , if hes a man he'd tell you - make him qrow up ! if not just act like you dont want the sexx , maybe he'll want it if he knoos you dont ! (: i hope i helped !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): I understand that this is his first baby with you. I had a daughter when I met my husband. When we found out we were having a baby together he changed. At the time he could not explain to me what was wrong, mainly because I don't think he knew himself. It turned out that he was nervous of being a father, and worried that if we had sex he would hurt me or the baby. Maybe your boyfriend could feel this way too???
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): We're not married because he doesnt see the point of it. Both of us are divorcés and he no longer wishes to go down that road. And this is his first child, since my first baby daddy isnt in the picture, my boyfriend became the stepfather.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (10 November 2009):
 It seems like you have more going on here than sex and pregnancy. While I may be digging a little too deep, may I ask why you are having a second child with him and yet you guys are not married? It seems like that may be a more accurate indicator of what the problems are to me.
To the original point though. Sex for me with my wife was different at first because her body was no longer my personal playground anymore. It was a psychological thing that is kinda hard to explain. It changed after a short while and later on it only got better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Thank you for ur answer. And yes i have a bullet and thats the only way i can satisfy myself. One thing i forgot to mention os that he prefers to please himself with porn then to have his way with me. Ive stopped asking not to mention ive stopped trying to have sex with him. I actually feel less of a woman because im being rejected.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Being a women you already know what the deal is we as women always have that gut feeling. U can look into it or do what he is doing don't ask anymore and if all else fails buy a bullet and take care of your self.
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