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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My GF and I live together and spend each evening together, which is great. However, she has a boring office job and texts me and IMs me all day long, five or six times an hour. I work at home on my computer as a freelancer and HAVE to get work done or else I won't have a job. Also, I love my job.When I tell her I can't be distracted, she gets mopey and sad. I understand that she doesn't like her job and it would be great if I could support us both, but that will never happen if I don't excel at what I'm doing right now.Any advice on what to say to her or how to set up some rules without hurting her feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Just tell her the truth. Tell her as much as you love hearing from her, it is very distracting and I am having trouble getting my work done. So please stop trying to contact me at work.
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