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writes: my bofriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now and i recently found out 3 days after he asked me out on a date he slept with another girl should i confront him about it or leave it alone since me and him are living together now and he says he loves me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bitch +, writes (13 November 2009):
Why would you want to make this an issue? Were you in a commited relationship with him at the time? I think you should just drop this completely. It is silly.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 November 2009):
Totally in agreement with "CaringGuy."
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 November 2009):
I'm guessing that 3-days after he asked you out on a date he was still single? Meaning that you two hadn't even gone out on your first date yet? Ummm...no, this is something that is definitely not worth bringing up, he wasn't your boyfriend at the time so it's not really any of your business to be honest.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 November 2009):
All I can say is that he wasn't your boyfriend, he'd only asked you out on a date, and he seems to have been faithful since. If you're truly happy with him, and see a future for you both, then let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Were you dating him exclusively at the time? Bottom line here is that if it doesnt bother you and everything is fine, dont create a problem where there is none. He made a mistake and had some bad judgment. But he has stayed with only you since you got serious.
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