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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:It is about 3 month i found him . Infact he wanted to be with me .He hasnt said to me what kind of relation he wants yet . I told him to think about it for a week, to know what he wants. I am not sure he loves me .Also he's crazy busy working and has hardly any time for me. This upsets me and he says he doesn't want me to be unhappy all my life but that he doesn't think he can change and he'll always be a workaholic!Even sometimes he doenst asnwer my phone calls . When i complain , he says he didnt see my miss calls and didnt check sms!The thing is I know that he arranges to go out with his friend . He's mad busy at work and can't go but then arranged to go out with them !He will never arrange to go out with me! Am I being a fool loving him? Does he not understand? What should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 November 2009):
He just doesn't sound like he's interested in you enough. A guy who is in love really makes the effort, no matter what. If he loved you, he'd find time. And he's choosing to go out with his friends and not you. Ultimately, I think you would be better off finding a guy who works hard and has aims in life, but will also make you feel loved and important.
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