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writes:I have a petite butt, small and a bit flat comparing to most women. My boyfriend said he loves my butt and he can't seem to keep his hands off of it. I'm just wondering why he seems to love my butt when my butt is smaller and not as nice as most women's butts out there. If he can obsess over my small one, does that mean everywhere he goes he pretty much oggles at every woman's butt since they're all rounder and bigger than mine? He's an ass man I imagine, and he's commented on how hot kim kardashian is because of her butt. I guess it makes me feel a bit insecure when the only body part he loves about me is my butt, but my butt isn't even nice comparing to most women. I hope I'm making sense.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 Hey girlfriend, my man is an ass man too... and now, as well as having a sweet badonkadonk of my own (it's no J. Lo, but I work with what I've got), I also do him the pleasure of pointing out particularly bodacious booties. I suspect this is why he married me. You have the choice - you can feel insecure, or you can own what you have. It's your butt, OWN IT. EMBRACE IT. Because it'll be a long lifetime of you feeling not great about your butt... best get used to it now!!
He loves YOU. YOU, YOU, YOU and that glorious butt of yours. He's picked your butt as the BEST butt. And while he has picked your butt to be the butt he goes home too, maybe he can't help checking out other butts too. Maybe you're a "face" girl and you can't help but look at Johnny Depp's GORGEOUS face and think, "mmm... that's a hot face". But, you will still prefer your fellas, right?
Don't feel insecure. He adores you and he can't stop feeling up your backside. He's in love with you. He's in love with your ass. Don't let Kim Kardashian bring you down... love yourself and what you're working with.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 November 2009):
He loves you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 You do make sense: the man loves you, and that's why he loves your butt. Butts are lovely things.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (10 November 2009):
 He loves your butt because he loves YOU!
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reader, over40  +, writes (10 November 2009):
I think you may have an altered body image. Your butt is probably perfect. It would be nice if u could like your butt as much as your man does :-)
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reader, duce00 +, writes (10 November 2009):
 Ahhh the butt...such a wonderful part of the female anatomy! Like most guys my favorite female butt in the world is the one I can grab on a regular basis.
The day you have to worry is the day he does not relish touching your booty. Sounds like that is not your problem at all.
Rock what you got baby!
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reader, bort +, writes (10 November 2009):
Not all guys have the same taste in anything... including butts. You might not like yours, but there's no such thing perfect butt for everyone... just a perfect butt for someone.Maybe your boyfriend has found the perfect butt for him.
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