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anonymous
writes:well im 18 years old and i have a huge problem, me and my boyfriend, have been together ever since we were 14 and we moved in together about a year ago. Our relationship with eachother is sometimes great but we have our ups and downs like some couples do. we both love eachother alot and we want to be together. today i reseived a call from my boyfriends mother who just moved in with us because she has personal problems she wanted to spend somtime with us. my boyfriends mom called me in this morning and insulted me by saying i was a good for nothing that i had her son do anything and everything i wanted, that is not truth she was bragging about how her son was better off without me that if it wasnt for me her son [my boyfriend] would be a great achiever. she kept calling me at work just to insult me, i cryed so much she laughed and i felt even more bad. i dont kno what to do sometimes i feel like i am ruinning my boyfriends life. he droped out because he needed to work more so that he can pay for my education and because we soon wish to be parents and get married. we both just turned 18. he is a grate man i cant let go but i think i should. please help me. thanx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): His mom is way out of line. Her son is an adult now and needs to take responsibility of his own actions. But there is one thing I must say to you:You come off as extremely selfish. I understand your boyfriend has a say in this too, but why would he drop out so YOU can finish your education? Is it not possible for you both to study? Understand that while you wants money NOW, a good education can give you more money LATER. Also, you are young enough to hold off getting a family. You dont need babies right now. You need to get yourself and your man on your own feet and get his mom out of this picture before all of this. And for goodness sake, dont prioritize a family above you and your partners interests. It is in both of your interests to have solid safe jobs that pay off well, so education is what you both need. Back to his mom: she is out of line, tell her to talk to her son about this and not you.
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