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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last ...

Lately, he's been cold and distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was ...

I live with my in laws, and I feel suffocated in my marriage! My husband is not willing to change this as his mother would feel "deserted."

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - ive been married 6 months, i live with my in laws this is something my husband is not willing to change any time soon. He is afraid that his mother will feel deserted if we leave the parental house and even bought a bigger house so we would al...

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He ...

I've given him £6000 in total which he spent on debts and drugs and now he has disappeared...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i dont know what to do and am deepl upst. i will try shorten the story. i was with this wonderful guy, for a year was all perfect, then one day i heard nothing from him at all just stopped calling visiting nothing, i went through torment and ...

I'm thinking of walking away. Is the love I have enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi, wonder if you can offer a few words. I have been seeing my girlfriend now for some 4years and plan to move in together, maybe next year sometime but the problem I have is that she wants to get married, this I have not dismissed but I ...

She's not speaking to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - the girl im with at the moment is not speaking to me after we had a weekend away together, i have been with her for a while and last night we was having a text chat like we normally do and she asked me about my past relationships, and because i ...

Should I deal with the problems or end the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Ok so here I go...this is hard to explain but ill try my best. Feel free to ask me any questions if you arent sure of something or if i left somethign out. Im confused about my relationship with my bf who I have been with for 1 month. We knew e...

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I think I hate my boyfriend's family. Its been 6 months since the last time I've visited them (which went horribly wrong).I took the brunt of their meaness and turned my cheek and they still complained to my boyfriend that they thought I was a bad ...

Has my penis replaced my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - My relationships keep failing. I meet up with lots of girls, and we tend to have sex within the first couple of weeks. This carrys on for a while then my woman starts critising me, so I try to do what she say, so she still have horny sex with me. I ...

He is lazy, we argue , then he threatens to leave, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I argue all the time about work that he is supposed to do around the house. We have been together 5 years and live together. It really upsets me when he yells at me. Then, he always wants to break up as being the only resolution ...

I cheated and I know its wrong, but it takes two to tango doesn't it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Do you think it's true that it's not ONLY the person who cheats who is at fault when it happens? I guess I was just wondering about your opinions because I would consider myself a very good person who was caught in a "grey" situation and un...

My fiance accuses me of cheating, he's also immature, how can I cope?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My fiance is always asking me if i'm with someone else and it sucks because i am always so honest . I feel as if it's his past that makes him insecure (his player lifestyle)..well sunday i went over to talk to him about it..and again he began with ...

My guy doesn't like spending money. We don't ever eat out, or go on holiday. I'm starting to get fed up! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend ...

Should me and my fiance try to start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her ...

He thinks our relationship is getting too serious and wants to think about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for three years, two of which I lived with the guy and we were engaged to be married next year. I began having doubts quite a while ago but stuck it out to see if things changed, which they didn't. During the last month or ...

A have a serious crush on a guy at work but I'm married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been married almost three years, I have a two year old and my relationship with my husband is great. I have a crush on a guy at work. A serious crush. I'm talkin' when I unexpectedly see him, I get flustered and I can't concentrate. When I a...

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex ...

Am I wrong in thinking that I can't please her? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months and in that time I have had a few problems. A year ago, I forgot about her competing in a sporting event. I was away working the weekend and got consumed with the job. She was obviously upset that I t...

Every area that she has pointed out I have worked on but I feel she hasn't. Any help/suggestions please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Just like to say thank you for taking the time to read this question! I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months. She's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. But recently we have been having problems. We have had a few seriou...

How do I rebuild my friendship with my best friend without damaging his relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I'm living in what most people would think to be an unorthodox way. I share a house with my best friend who is a man and i'm a woman. Me and my best friend have been very close for years. We've been through a lot together. It has worked o...

Should I draw his attention to this matter or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi to everyone. I have my conscience troubling me and find I'm unable to cope and even sleep! My friend(female) who I didn't liked much, but have been in a certain relations this past year, and I don't know why, simply find it hardly to dump her, I ...

Am I just wasting my time with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 October 2007 (?) - I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...

My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...

When is enough, enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I've had some bad luck in the past with boyfriends. Fell pregnant when i was 19, and my daughter is now almost 5. I met a guy 18 months ago, and fell in love. It was the same for him, but he just came out of a failed engagement, so things took a ...

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...

I like her, she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - I have known this girl for about two years but only about 2 months ago i realised that i really liked her. a few weeks ago i gathered up the courage to ask her out but to my huge disappointment, her reply was "sorry i have a boyfriend but i like you ...

Why is he accusing me of having chlamydia???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - my so called boyfriend has accused me of having chlamydia,which is so untrue,why would he say this unless he has got it and thats why he`s done research i havent got any symptoms to indicate this and ive recently had tests which dont show anything ...

I'm truthful, he lies. I don't understand him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 8 months ago and have remained close friends. We both date other people, but still hang out alone and end up sleeping at eachother's houses a few times a week. I am truthful with him about what I do, he lies a lot. ...

We fight, but I want him to fall in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - hey me and my boyfreind have been together 2 months ago and we fell in love within 1 week i think at that time i couldn't live without him anyways when time passed we started having more fights ( i still love him to death) but i know that he ...

I'm back with my ex but I don't feel the same towards him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...

He has a low sex drive. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfrined for 3 months, he is 28. We had sex a few times a month or so after we got together (3 to be precise) but since then we haven't had any, not even any foreplay. It is a struggle just to get him to give ...

Do I report my boyfriend for domestic violence or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have known my bf for years, and have dated for a few months now. He beat me up pretty badly, all my xrays and catscans came back fine, but the police were called by the hospital and they want me to report it. i don't know what i should do, i don't ...

I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...

My ex won't leave me alone and I'm scared of dating.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - When I was 15 i starting dating a guy who was really nice. We got engaged after just a few weeks, fast I know but we were young. After about 9 months during an argument he hit me across my face. I was really confused at the time I thought he loved ...

All I seem to focus on is the negatives...how can I stop this and have a normal relationship??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi everybody. Hope somebody can help me here or if somebody is in a similar situation. I have met a lovely guy who travels alot for his job but when we see each other the time we spend together is great, he is very caring and very affectio...

I still love her and she still loves me...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Well, as I feared, she broke up with me. She "Could not do this anymore.". She insured that it was nothing I did, she was "having emotional problems and was in a bad place" as she put it. She does not know if we can be together in the future, ...

Her lack of communication is killing me - what can I do to get through to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - I have been (living) with my current girlfriend for 10 years this coming xmas, and last year we finally bought some property together. It seems though, that ever since this happened, her attitude to me has changed. She has become colder, never re...

I don't know what's going on. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have just returned from a business trip, i was gone for 5 days and its the longest i have been away from my boyfriend of 1 year. when I was away I did call him a lot and I missed him so much and on the trip i realized how much i loved him and what...

Bullied into marrying this man, should I leave him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi there. I married last year in response to an ultimatum-move to the next level or break up. I knew at the time that fear should not have been a part of my decision, but I was not ready to let go-even in spite of the many emotionally abusive ...

My b/f and I can't talk without getting into a fight!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My b/f and I can't talk without getting into a fight! It seems like he feels the need to challenge everything that comes out of my mouth, even the most benign statements. He corrects, or contradicts with attitude. It's getting to the point where I ...

A few weeks ago my boyfriend confided in me that he drinks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - A few weeks ago my boyfriend confided in me that he drinks. He didn't tell me before b/c he was afraid of how I'd react. I'd told him I didn't like people that bragged about drinking. I went to a halloween party my friend was having at her ho...

I've got a new guy, but he doesn't want children, would this be best for me anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Please help. I am incredibly fearful of rejection in a relationship after my last partner of 8 1/2 years ended the relationship suddenly by email and then cut himself off more or less completely from me. The event triggered bipolar disorder in me, ...

Is he playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a guy casually since January of this year. We're not exclusive. We hang out in the same social circle. He says he doesn't want anyone to know we're dating, because I once dated someone else in the ...

Lack of communication is hurting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Been going out with this girl for a few months now. Everything was great for the first few weeks, but college has kinda taken over our lives. It has become harder and harder to see each other, so I text her once a day just to check in. Sometimes, ...

Is it worth the trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfreind have been together about 4 months he's in the army and so doesnt live at home. We both really like eachother but we only ever get to see eachother once a week maximum. Sometimes i think that being upset about not seeing him is ...

My boyfriend is moving away, I'm staying put, is this the end for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Oh, I'm desperate! My boyfriend and I have been "together" for almost 9 months now. He decided against coming to school in the town I live, and is interviewing for jobs in his own country- and that's far away! He always told me that he didn't ...

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6271 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his ...

My boyfriend never invites me to parties... Should I be worried or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 yr old female. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Although I know it's normal for the dynamic of a relationship to change over time, I just can't seem to shake the feeling of inevitable doom. Around September, my bo...

He likes sex with me but does not want to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i badly love a guy. according to him he is also loves me. he is working in a placement services. so he called me for a job in janubry but after that we didn't have any contact. in may he was again calling me for a job. after that we was talking on ...