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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was sick. Last week, I sat him down and talked to him about it. He told me he still wanted to be together, but that he couldn't handle us arguing anymore, and if we continued to, he would call a break so we could later start anew. I understood and agreed, and we hung out the rest of the day, and we were fine and back to our carefree selves. Still though, he hasn't been the same. I don't get calls, he speaks to me with only 2-word sentences, and his kisses are less meaningful. He said after the tough week that we had, he he doesn't know if he still has the same feelings for me, as much as he would like to. I don't want to lose him, and the fact that he is less interested in me is breaking my heart. I don't want to suck up to him, but I would do anything for his love again. So while he decides and thinks, should I call a break and leave him space? Or should I stick around with the akwardness and hope things get better? I'm afraid that if I give him space, he'll realize he's fine without me, not that he misses or needs me. I can't imagine ever losing him, and I'm beating myself up trying to find out what I did wrong. Everyday is so hard to go through, because I can't stop overanalyzing what happened and I also can't concentrate on my studies. :, [ Any help will be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Hi. Someone once told me that if a man loves you and wants to be with you not many things will get in his way. Now I don't fully know what he's going through but my suggestion to you is for you to withdraw yourself a little from him. He may need space. Don't be afraid to lose him because if he wants to be with you, this won't happen. He is hurting you by his behaviour and you shouldn't accept that. Just tell him that things are not good enough for you the way they are. Sometimes by letting go, you learn alot about people and you'll be able to see his intentions more clearly. Good luck I hope you find strength to deal with this. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): hey ,
dear i am having the same problem.i even satyed at home when i had a very important day in school . i hope you don't feel you are the only one in this situation . good luck
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