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36-40,
*anny_zeco
writes: the girl im with at the moment is not speaking to me after we had a weekend away together, i have been with her for a while and last night we was having a text chat like we normally do and she asked me about my past relationships, and because i didnt text back quick enough , said i was acting wierd and asked" what the point was in it" now shes ignoring me, and im not sure if she has called it off! i texted back saying i was sorry if i wasnt quick enough and that my past relationships are in the past and that i love her but she still isnt speaking to me. chears dan.
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reader, Midge +, writes (31 October 2007):
 If she isnt speaking to you because you werent quick enough texting back, she has some serious issues! It shows immaturity and she possibly thinks you postponed having to text back because you had something to be ashamed of.
I cant understand why people have to know about their partners previous relationships. What is in the past is in the past!!! Let the past be and get on with what you have!!
Perhaps you need to sit her down, face to face and explain that to her. You dont ask me about it, and I wont ask you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Whatever happened to good ol' talking? There's nothing quite like it for picking up from the tone of someone's voice and their facial expressions what they're actually saying to you and vice-versa. Instant response is guaranteed. and it doesn't cost a penny!
Sounds like she's having one of those 'girly moments'.
Assume she's called it off for the time being and let her do the chasing. Or you could speak to her (or text her if that's the only way you know how to communicate) and call it off yourself, telling her you can't stand her juvenile attitude and you need someone with rather more maturity.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): How strange, she sounds insecure to me i suggest that you call/text her and ask her to meet up & that you are willing to tell her anything that she wishes to know as you love her dearly and have nothing to hide from her!
good luck x
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reader, JustaGuy +, writes (31 October 2007):
Hi,
What is it with girls and not replying quck enough to texts eh
I would give her a day or two to cool off, then go and speak to her face to face if possible, if not ring her. Explain your reasons for not texting back, it freaked you out a little or whatever.
Perhaps she was after some reassurance about your relationship - Were you the one to do the dumping in the past etc.
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