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writes:I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last night as we were laying in bed i asked her if she was still in love with me. Her answer was "I don't know". What do i do? I love her with all of my heart. I have given up everything for her. (no she did not ask me to.) i am so in love with her. Somebody help. Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just thought i would give an update on my situation.. a couple of days after she told me that she didnt know if she was in love with me... She told me that she needed time and that it would be better if i was not there. i have now been away for almost a month. it is driving me crazy... i told her that i would give her time. and that i will always love her. how long till my heart does not hurt anymore???P.S. dapone 1.. thank you for your advice, it helped me to stay calm while we talked.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Hello.
The first thing to do is stop panicking, pull yourself together, chill out your getting to carried away over nothing, you should sit down with her(not in bed)and talk to her, try and find out what the problem is, that is of course if there is a problem, calmly ask her if things are alright between you , and dont what ever you do go into a mood or fly of the handle as they say, be calm with her, try to find out if any thing has up set her, or she is upset by something, if she still wants to get married, communication is one of the most important events in marriage, if you loose that then you have lost ever thing, if she says it nothing then give her a bit of space then ask her again in a few days,you have to treat a woman with love and respect and kindness, if you show her that you care she will more than likely open up to you, dont bagger her, just be your calm self, listen to what she has to say, and then you will find any problems if they exist.
good luck.
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