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writes:my so called boyfriend has accused me of having chlamydia,which is so untrue,why would he say this unless he has got it and thats why he`s done research i havent got any symptoms to indicate this and ive recently had tests which dont show anything relating to this infection,hes has destroyed me completely,i cant stop crying and cant believe any man could be so evil and cruel. Reply to this Question
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (29 October 2007):
 A guilty mind usually projects their guilt onto someone else.If someone else is angry, they usually see anger in other people.This may apply here as well unfortunately, and even if it isn't the case, you still need to question whether you wish to be with someone who says such things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): maybe he cheated on you, and heard from someone that the girl he cheated on you with has chlamydia, then he was freaking out thinking he'd get caught by you. So he figures he'll blame it on you. Perhaps he didn't get it from the other person, or that they used to have it and got it corrected. You've had sex with him recently, right? So if he had it, wouldn't you? Unless you use condoms. I would make him go to the clinic with you, and both get tested. If he doesn't have it, then you need to ask him why he's doing this. If he does have it, you know he cheated. Dry your tears.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Hello.One thing you should stop doing is crying over this jerk, hes not worth a single though in your head, what a terrible thing to accuse you of, how does he now about chlamydia odd thing that, this STD shows no symptoms what so ever, people can carry this for years and years and not now they have it, one of the only ways this can be trace if a woman/man are unable to have a baby, and test are done they can find the cause, it makes people infertile, not able to have children ever.So what has he been up to and who has told him that they have chlamydia, you need to get rid of this plank, straight away you really do not want him near you, i hope you have not had sex with him it spreads like wild fire, please do not do that for your own sake, or then you will have it too.I hope if you do decide to drop this guy, that you will meet some one who will love and treat you with more respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): According to the US CDC (Center for Disease Control), 3/4 of women and 1/2 of men never show any symptoms. However, if you have been checked out then you shouldn't worry. As Waterloo Sunset said, have him get checked out. Perhaps you should also get another check to make sure you haven't gotten it from him.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Look, I think you need to stop crying. Go to the doctor, get a test. If it says you don't have chlamydia, then what else can your boyfriend say to you? You'll have it on paper. Both of you should go in and get tested together, because if anything it sounds like HE has chlamydia. This is an easy enough fix. Get a test. End of argument. And if your boyfriend is really being this much of a jerk about everything, why even date him when he gets so unnecessarily cruel over this?Go to the doctor. Together. I wouldn't suggest sleeping with your boyfriend until you get a test either... if he's got an infection, you do NOT want to contract it.Good luck, sweetness.xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Maybe he has some desease and he is trying to turn the situation around on you? Ask him to get checked out at his local clinic if he is so worried about stuff! If you are confident that you dont have it then stop worrying. He is acting suspicious.take carexx
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