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writes:Me and my boyfreind have been together about 4 months he's in the army and so doesnt live at home. We both really like eachother but we only ever get to see eachother once a week maximum. Sometimes i think that being upset about not seeing him is worse then how good it feels when i see him once a week. We both have different freinds and completly different lives.Is there any point continuing this relationship if its always going to be like this? Any help would be really apprisiated thanks XX Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): When my boyfriend and I first got together, I was 17 and he was 20. He works out of state and sometimes he would be gone for up to six weeks at a time. Sometimes I would miss him and think to myself why am I putting up with this. Partly I thought this way because all my friends boyfriends were always around and I just wanted a normal realationship like they had, but the truth is that nobody made me feel so special like he does and when the feelings are there they are worthing waiting for. Our relationship has lasted through me going away to college and him being gone alot, but it was way worth it. We been together five years. If you feel like this guy makes you happier than you've ever been when your with him then stick through it because it can turn into something very special and strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Being in the army he must travel and train. But if he really likes you, he will talk to no one else but you. He will think of you everyday. Even though you teo have different careers. It can be worth it. But you just have to be loyal to each other. Ask him to write you letter or mail or call you whenever possible. My guy went into the marines and was always gone. It lasted for 5years. But we always care and love each other. Even though I got mad or piss and thought he forgot or even cheat. He never did. And he still act the same. Two different careers. but we are still together.
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