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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Is my ex still upset about us breaking up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Do you think my ex is still upset about us breaking up ?. He sent me a message a couple of weeks ago out of the blue saying " well, i hope your life is better, and that you are happy, i really do " . We've spoken again a couple of times since then, ...

Should I send my ex a text to show him I care or leave the ball in his court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Ok... so i dated my ex for 2 years and i broke up with him about 10 months ago. Throughout the past 9 months, he's been trying to get back with me, but i didn't think it was something i wanted. I recently saw him out with his 2 friends- one of ...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

Ex and I slept together, but I feel insecure because she's blonder, and smarter than I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago and I still can't get over it, we dated for two years, I was twenty and he was thirty-two, first my family was against it because of the age difference, they said he was just using me but that ...

My ex told my sister she misses me but she has never called

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - I have broken up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date, it was a tough break up for me i moved to Los Angeles from Chicago to be with her and being here alone has been hard. Basically the reason she broke up with me was because of my immaturity ...

I want to grow old with my ex but not with all these lies inbetween us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Alright well im lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year. this is the most longest and serious relationship ive been in. im 17 and shes 20 (but doesnt act like it). And well when we first met we were oh so very madly in ...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Can I dedicate a song to my fiance that my ex once dedicated to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I want to use a song that my X boyfriend dedicated to me for our fist song my fiancee doesn't know and honestly when my X dedicated that song to me I didn't feel anything and it only makes me thing about my true love now who is my fiancee.... Would ...

I can't fully get over an ex before I get involved with someone new. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I've had 3 serious relationships in my young life. Each time these relationships have ended I have been devastated. I put a lot of effort and energy in to making relationships work and when they don't work out I feel like I've failed. But I don't ...

Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always ...

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

How can a guy be so selfish and hurt me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Why would guy be so selfish and hurt me so much:(? Am fuming!! I loved my ex boyfriend so much. I thoight we were in love and had a deep meaningful relationship, but he was faking it all the while! He dumped me saying he doesn't want a r...

Should I accept these gig tickets from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 1.5 years, we live close and spend about 5 days a week together. For the first 6 to 8 months of the relationship it was very difficult mainly because I found she used to bring up her ex everyday, obviou...

I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having ...

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i ...

This girl is confusing me, but the sexual tension is still there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - We really liked each other, a LOT. Then she saw her ex of 2 years and had to get over him so I gave her space and we didn't talk as much. She has been initiating Facebook chat with me ever since. So she likes me, but realized she had to get her head ...

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who ...

I'm interested in being more than friends. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have a friend and I like him a lot. I know that we would make a great couple. We are really good friends and our other friend as well as strangers say that we are or could be a great couple, but he has been through some stuff with his ex and I get ...

He doesn't treat me that well, but I'm still so drawn to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi there everyone, I have a question for all of you and any help will really be appreciated. Last year me and A were together for about 10 months on and off he even lived with me at one point but we both had our problems both drink and mental ...

Do I have to meet him? Is it possible that he is still in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - please help me, this is the scenario: my ex-bf and i been together for almost 6yrs until he went to dubai for work. we had long distance relationship for more than a year until his american citizen old classmate who was in USA pop into his ...

Is it possible to have something on your phone that has private numbers show on Caller ID?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Is it possible to have something on your phone that screens through private numbers? As in, someone can call on private/witheld number, but their number still shows up? My reason for asking is that I was feeling curious as to whether my ex-bo...

Should I get back with my ex? She left me for her ex, but he beat her up so she wants to come back to me again!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - So my ex gf, who dumped me to get back with her ex boyfriend who hits her, wants to get back together. Im the complete opposite of her ex, hes a badboy kind of guy who doesnt do shit with his life, while i on the other hand, work two dead end jobs ...

Can you be a FWB with an Ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ...

Why is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous about his ex's? How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Dear all, Myy BF of a few months has recently started trying to make me jealous about his ex , and the mother of his kids. ( they are apart). I am not sure why he is doing this , as things have been very good between us for the last few weeks, ...

Still living with my ex and he is acting like we are still together! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me in January. We still live together due to financial reasons, and have agreed to stay in our current place until our lease is up at the end of the year. I have moved into the spare bedroom and we live as roommates now. ...

How to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Sorry this is so long, but I feel like I need to give the backstory and time progression of my last break-up. I'm really confused with my ex and his feelings towards me. Here's what happened: we broke up about 6 months ago. We were only together for ...

Is it reasonable that my boyfriend wants me to cut contact with my abusive ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and everything is wonderful. The only problem is he doesn't want me to have anything to do with my ex because of what happened in mine and my exs past. It was an semi abusive relationship. he ...

My GF has severe insecurity issues. How can I explain to her that her feelings are unwarranted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is insecure. To be fair here, I am a 39 separated guy. I have been separated for a while from my wife and it was by my choice and her and DO NOT want to work it out but there is a child between us. I am in the construction ...

How do I get my ex of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - well I break up with my boyfriend, I realized that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we had ...

Ex-Boyfriend Still Interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Though we clicked immediately, we had a pretty messy breakup half a year back. No screaming or tantrums but we simply stopped speaking and haven't spoken since. Trouble is, we both both participate in a volunteer group and are constantly mixed in ...

He brought his ex but not me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem that I'm not sure if it is a real problem or not!! My Fiancée and I have been dating for two years, living together for one year and getting married next year. He has just dropped it on me that he wants to go camping with...

I want to marry him but not his kids!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...

Still hurting over my ex and cant give myself fully to my new boyfriend.....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Broken up with my ex earlier this year then again started dating for pleasure anyway. the problem is that whenever my current boyfriend is around i dont feel him its like he is annoying and boring me inside but i do love him so much its just how i ...

Helping an insecure girlfriend feel secure.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Hello Question: My GF wants me to delete all my pictures of my ex. Erase everything completely. I love my GF very much, but I don't want to do this and don't believe she has the right to ask this of me. She is very hurt though and finds it difficu...

I don't want to be the psycho ex girlfriend trying to get him back, but I really miss him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - So me and my ex boyfriend broke up after 2 months but we moved kinda fast because it was love at first sight pretty much and we're still trying to be friends and talk every now and then. Anyways it's been about 3 months and I thought I was over him...

Boyfriend talking to Ex on Facebook - how should I take this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - So im not sure that my boyfriend talking to someone on facebook that he has dated should bother me. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and this girl that he is friends with on facebook talks to him quite a bit. When i had told him ...

Would he stick around if I was just a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Well I could really do with some opinions and advice. So recently I find myself wanting to break up with my boyfriend. We’ve been together nearly seven months. I love him so much. But I can’t get his ex out of my head. She was a lot older than him ...

I keep falling into bed with my ex! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - So here's how it is. My ex is my freind; my best friend. We text all the time, and stay up 'till the early hours of the morning on the phone. We've even had phone sex. We broke up because he cheated on me. But after we broke up we still acted t...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl, and I feel jealous when they hang out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. She's a good friend of mine and really nice and we're pretty close. I don't want to, but every time he hangs out with her (which is like everyday) I get jealous. Recently, I've been on a 9 day trip and every day ...

If she breaks up with him what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I guess i should first give a little background. My friend James, has been going out with a girl for almost a year now. I at first had no feelings for her, but over time I started developing feelings for her. Now the relationship has not been all...

Should I tell my ex (who is now just my friend) that I still have feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Should I tell my ex (who is now my friend) that I still have feelings for him? So my long distance ( a few hours drive) boyfriend of 7 months, broke up with me about 2 months ago. He really had no reason, except that “he’s not ready for a girl...

My ex is contacting me again and has a new man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Hi guys, ill try keep it short. my exgirl who lived with me for 6 years left 7 months ago. her idea. her feelings changed bit and had doubts. i had give her doubts as i was always out with mates etc. i was deveastated to say least and wake up call....

Do I have any chance to get my ex back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...

Is my gf still in love with her ex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - I can't stop thinking my gf is still in love with her ex. They were together for like 3 years. She tells me she's not and that she loves me but she has told me she wants me to meet him (wtf--why?) And I said I didn't want to. She hung out with him ...

My ex girlfriend is obsessed with me! Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

24 June 2011 (?) - My ex girlfriend is obsessed with me and won't stop calling and texting me. I've blocked her from facebook and msn but I can't block her number from my phone and I don't know how to stop her. Everyone keeps telling me to ignore her because she'll ...

Torn between two lovers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I'm in love with two men. The other one is my ex boyfriend (Jan) and the other is my friend (Matthew). Jan just broke up with me recently this month. He actually broke up with me twice for two consecutive days. He broke up with me because he is so ...

My best friend has feelings for me, I love him too but I'm not totally over my ex. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start.. Well, my first relationship was with a guy I would have given the earth to, I did pretty much anything and everything he asked me to - I completely doted on this guy because I loved him as well as him being my...

My girlfriend will not have anything to do with my second ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - I need a question answered but first i will try to tell you the history I have been with a girl now for 1.5 years she is great and we get along so well. However there is one issue that i can't resolve and it will break us up! I have been in two ...

Ex has a girlfriend but wants to see me and...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hey, I dated my ex for 3 years. About half of our relationship was long distance. I left for college (6 months after we started dating) and I was thousands of miles away. So, we got to see each other on the long breaks: christmas break, spring b...

Does he still want to be involved with his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - What if your boyfriend keeps liking the facebook status of his ex-girlfriend knowing that the status is for him? Does it mean he isnt over his ex and still likes her??...