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writes:What if your boyfriend keeps liking the facebook status of his ex-girlfriend knowing that the status is for him? Does it mean he isnt over his ex and still likes her??
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (25 June 2011):
thats not good. yes i think he still likes her sorry.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (24 June 2011):
 status says she still loves him and he is clicking that he likes it? not good. i think you are right to be worried about this. whatever his feelings are towards her now, he should not be clicking 'like' on comments like that coz its just encouraging her, sounds like he is loving the attention. he could just as easily NOT click like and then she would not keep saying it. he doesn't want her to lose interest, which means there is either something still going on between them OR he is enjoying having her still fawning over him even though he is now with you.
not sure what his reason is but, sorry, but he doesn't sound like a good person
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, they are still frns...They meet each other frequently..
He says he dont love her but as a frn will be available whenever she needs him..
The staus is always about she still loves him..and knowing that its for him..he likes it..
I got to know coz she is in my frenlist..
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reader, krit +, writes (23 June 2011):
 i HATE Facebook,the same thing happened to me and because of it my long term gf stopped talking to me for whole 2 weeks.
But we talked about it and sort it out later(mainly because of my handwork)
uhhhh !!!!all these relationships are so messy but one of the two had to lead and solve things out....
It MEANS he's liking the attention but not necessarily means that he likes her. If that would have been the case then he would have got back with her instead of getting into a new relationship. But still Confront him about this before this reignited spark turns into fire and burns your relationship.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Does he like the status of many other people as well? I'd be a little worried if I was you. But, is he trying to stay friends with her? Do you have any ex's that you are friends with, real friends I mean, and not just say hi when you meet? Does he meet her as a friend?
Some people are able to move on to friendship and busy all old romantic feelings, but want to keep them in their lives because they at one time meant a lot to them, and they don't want to lose them.
I think it's honourable if they are able to maintain a close friendship despite the love interest they once had for each other, but it is very rare that such a friendship is kept.
How long ago was it that they were together? If several years has passed, it's better.
If liking her facebookstatus is all he does... I wouldn't be too worried, if he likes the status of other people as well. It could also be he has other friends on his list that you do not, and that he likes their statuses, but you don't get to see it since you don't have them on your list again.
I wouldn't worry too much, evaluate the other parts of your relationship first, and if it is good then leave this issue alone and focus on the other parts of the relationship.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (23 June 2011):
i think he should stay off her page really as they are no longer an item and he is now with you. he is just keeping a hand in what she does and there is no real need for it. i am not against exes speaking to each other if they happen to meet in the street or whatever but i think fakebook (and no, that isn't a typo!) is a bit too convenient a way for an ex to never leave you alone. i think he is liking her statuses as a way of initiating contact everytime. do they message each other? how do you know he is liking her status? does he tell you or have you found out by snooping?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): Well, it could be as a friend. In many cases in break ups, they try to avoid each other because of that bad feeling, sadness or sexual tension. He seems to be comfortable with her. If he meets her a lot, then that should be the problem.If you feel insecure, you should talk to him and tell him that you don't feel comfortable with this.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 It is really hard to tell, maybe he still likes her as a friend. Are they still in contact? Maybe talk to him because only he has the answer.
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