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writes:I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ask her for casual sex, not because I am animalisitc, but simply because we are both over each other and it would be good experience. How should I ask her?
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reader, ben345 +, writes (2 July 2011):
ben345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe split 4 months ago and are now very open friends. We're also both bisexual and know we want to experiment with people. Dunno, just feel it would work :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): OOh no i would not go there if i were you, It would become so awkward and if one of you have any kind of feeling left it can become very messy indeed, and tbh she might feel very insulted if you asked her to be FWB.
I think you need to move on and let her get over this relationship first before you jump in, her head will be a mess and it just shows a lack of respect for her.
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reader, ben345 +, writes (28 June 2011):
ben345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was a mutual breakup, realizing we were both just friends really. The thing is, I'm fed up of all the serious and deep thinking. Yes, it might bring back a few thoughts, but we get on like we used to, just mates who are very open with each other. I don't see any reasons why not to
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): "we are both over each other and it would be good experience."That kinda contradicts itself. Not a good reason for sex. Be honest...you want sex. Not an "experience".In this situation, at least one of you will want, or at least feel something more, and one of you will wind up hurt. Better to move on to new fields.
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 My first question would be whom broke up with whom? Did you dump her, or did she dump you?Are you really sure you are over each other?
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