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writes:Do you think my ex is still upset about us breaking up ?. He sent me a message a couple of weeks ago out of the blue saying " well, i hope your life is better, and that you are happy, i really do " . We've spoken again a couple of times since then, and at first he said he would talk to me as a friend, but then he said he doesn't want to as " it would remind him of how things could have been better between us ". What do you think he meant by that ?.I told him i was happy and he said " are you trying to rub it in ? " . Some of the time, he seemed ok as he was talking to me, but other times, he got nasty towards me. I told him i was worried about his health, as he has health problems, and he said " i don't need you worrying about me ", and he said there was no point in me worrying about him since we were broken up. I might have missed some things out, but i'll add them later if i have. What do you think about it ?. I really miss him, as we have known each other for six years, and have only been broken up for a couple of months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011): Yes, he broke up with me. Apparently, he didn't think that i saw him enough. And he said he didn't think things would improve and get better. I don't know how to get him back.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
yes he is still upset about the break up sounds to me he is blaming himself for what happened between the two of you
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (1 July 2011):
 OP--You have to tell us how you broke up. Did he break or you? At moment, sounds like you both miss each other a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): People can be upset for a long time, years, after a breakup.After divorces, it a lot of people are still angry 10-15 years out.The longer one has invested time in a relationship, the greater the loss.
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reader, So confused 2  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 I think you both are playing games. Taking a break from each other sometimes helps. You both clearly still have feelings for each other. You two have a choice. You can completely break all ties and stop talking to each other. Or you can both admit how you feel. Life is too short to play games and to be rude to each other. Life is hard enough. If I were you, I would just simply state, "I miss us." Then see how he responds. If he is rude or doesn't know how he feels, then tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't offer his feelings, then I would stop talking to him. He will call you if he wants to work things out. IF he doesn't, then go on with your life. If things were ment to be then it will fall in place. If it doesn't, then they are plenty of others out there. You know the saying...Set it free, if it returns to you then it is yours; if it doesn't then in never was. I know this is hard to do. Self confidence is the best relationship healer and fixer. You are worth being loved and happy. Know that first and foremost!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): He sounds like he is upset ,and let me tell you something,they can never be a friendship after a relationship,there will be always a feeling from one part.
obviously,he still has a feeling for you.If you still like him get together again if not just stop talking to him, and move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): Did he break up with you? could be he feels guilty and hopes he didn't hurt you too bad.
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